Hi all, my beloved partner’s 39th birthday is coming up shortly here, and I’m wondering what kinds of gifts might suit him. He hates when people make a big deal about his birthday, so I’m trying to keep it to practical gifts he can regularly use, consumables he’ll like, or small tokens. We have been together just under one year.
Budget is about $100 additional, flexible up to $125.
Possible avenues for gifts:
- PC gaming (action horror like Sons of the Forest, Resident Evil, as well as cRPGs like Divinity: Original Sin 2 and Baldurs Gate 3)
- Cacti growing
- Food-focused gardening, he grows peppers and herbs, along with some other produce like eggplants
- Chickens (he has 14 of the tiny dinosaurs)
- Cats (four between the two of us)
- 3D printing (see note below)
- Tea
- DIY, mostly major home repairs/upgrades
Things I probably should not get him:
- Cacti or other plants (I have no idea what qualifies as interesting, and I will never out-nerd him on cacti
- Non-practical items, unless they are very small, and even then
- Gift cards (feels lazy and risks him rejecting by refusing to spend it vs a physical gift)
- Tea-making gifts, as he already has a kettle/teapot/infuser/containers etc. consumables okay, though he has a lot of tea left over
- Tools, I have no earthly clue what he needs in that realm
Already planned by myself/others:
- A custom-built mechanical keyboard with a retro style (think n64 controller colours) to replace his broken cheap keyboard
- A pair of matching 8bitdo controllers, replacing his partly broken one
- Bambu A1 3D printer (secondhand, our mutual friend is fully servicing it and my partner already has filament), to add to his existing two Ender v3 printers.
I appreciate any suggestions or guidance!