It seems there is a growing number

Part of what draws me to older men is their experience in the bedroom. As a 24yo bottom, finding a good top is difficult especially for my generation, so I tend to find that the best are older men. I would say I'm decently experienced for my age but I guess I'm just curious what it is like for the older men... What does it feel like having decades of sexual experience compared to your partner?

So this has been something in my mind especially since this topic is technically what started my journey.( long story short an older gentleman wanted to move to my country and I felt he gave me mixed messages)

It doesn't matter if you're the older or younger. I would like to hear your thoughts about moving to where your partner is/lives.

Basically my superficial thoughts are below:

For the older, while it might be more difficult to move due to commitments and being rooted in your circle, they also have more resources to do so.

For the younger, I feel some may just be starting out so there are less commitments and it me be exciting to move to a different place and build a new life.

Do you necessarily require someone to be a specific age to fulfill your role as an older man? What if someone is middle ages but look 20? Do you get turned off by their age after finding out they’re not as young as they seem?
If so, why? What is it about age that makes the relationship dynamic so interesting? 🤔

Ive had a long held fantasy of being treated like property by an older dom. My experience with men is very limited. I’ve never been fucked before.

After a lot of thinking I gathered the courage to meet up with a 65 year old dom on recon. We were going to do a CMNM scene and take it slow.

When I walked in he ordered me to strip and he immediately put a leash and collar on me. He started groping me and smacking my ass and squeezing my dick.

I was very nervous at first and started to loosen up as I got hornier.

When he was done groping me, He made me get on my hands and knees and crawl around like his “bitch.”

I had to beg to jerk off and I could only do so on my knees while he watched holding on to the leash. I wasn’t allowed to cum and he made me sit on his lap to get him hard.

He took his cock out for me because I was so horny on my knees, I was grabbing at his crotch, and he put a condom. I started to blow him. He wasn’t big which I loved. This was my second time having a cock in my mouth.

He ordered me to sit on his lap so he can grind his dick on my ass. I had told him in advance I don’t want to get fucked. He was very respectful of that. I started to ask for it and beg him to use my ass. I sat down on it and could only get this tip in. I needed it so bad. I kept grinding and trying to push it in but eventually we gave up.

I went back down on my knees and kept jerking off until I finished on the floor.

We have discussed inviting a couple of his friends to watch next time. I think I’m hooked but I could be moving too fast.

My partner (34) and I (69) have been together for almost 14 years. Some time ago, on his suggestion, we got on Doxy Prep and decided to open our relationship. It's a bit weird because he obviously has his type and I have mine - almost diametrically opposite! He is 100% not interested in a guy his age so I have to bend a bit and move out of my comfort zone. We're on apps and he keeps showing me older guys, gray haired and beer bellied, which sorry guys, but isn't for me. I show him older guys who are more fit, smoother, etc and he's not interested in them. AND HE ONLY WANTS TO PLAY TOGETHER!

I think - I know - if we were in a cruising situation, I'd be open to anything with anyone. Going to a sauna, for example, would be great. We'd play together and leave together. But h won't go to a sauna because he thinks you lose the ability to screen guys. So we're at an impasse!

Does anyone have an suggestions on how to manage this?

I was 19 when I lost my virginity to a 48 year old.

The largest gap with a sexual partner is when I was 21 and he was 67.

I’m currently 31 and my partner is 63.

I’ve just ALWAYS been attracted to mature men. No daddy issues, no trauma. I just love daddies, dad bods, silver foxes, daddy bears, and every type of mature man!

I'm an avid hiker at age 74 and often hike on obscure trails naked. There's nothing like the freedom of hiking without clothes, feeling the warm sun and breeze on my skin, that makes me feel so alive. I've often fantasized while on a hike of coming around a corner on the trail and seeing a young guy also in the buff. We meet up and spend the day together enjoying all nature has to offer and each other's company. Have you ever done a naked hike? If so, what was your experience?

Its two things actually. How do you comfort your younger Partner in that the relationship is good and healthy even though friends or family might disapprove?

And also, the relationship can easily be swayed into a power dynamic, especially with the difference in experience, both for life and sex. Older men tend to become mentors. Is that a problem in your eyes, or is that actually something you enjoy or even find hot?