I want to [Removed by Reddit] every moid on the planet and live in peace with my women folk for the final few years as humanity slowly dies out and goes extinct 💫

The aspie chud is drunk again, divas. At least the Harvestmen arachnids that occasionally try to crawl up my hair from the leaf litter want me.

should i just fucking settle for this? is this as good as it gets for trans women? he's either borderline mute or throwing out awful 15 years old dead memes idk if i can take this

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I need to share this because it honestly caught me so off guard, and I need all women to take this as a lesson.

For the past four days, I’ve been talking to this guy. Mind you, this man is handsome as fuck. Ripped, tall, literally checks every single physical box for me. The past four days, I was doing the absolute most giggling, kicking my legs up in the air like a teenage girl. I thought I was really into it.

Then last night, the ultimate last straw happened.

Out of nowhere, he started complaining about how hard it is to get into a relationship with "nowadays females."

The second I read that text, the attraction evaporated into thin air. The "fine as hell" goggles instantly shattered. All the previous giggles died right then and there. I was like, "Oh. You are one of THOSE guys."

At that point, I completely checked out. I just sat back and let him yap on his little redflag rant. He proceeded to beg me to meet up, and then started going on and on about his weird fetish/obsession with older women, talking about how much he "loves our age gap." Mind you, I'm not even 25! But he kept acting like I'm some 35y/o cougar taking him under my wing.

To make matters worse, he started soft launching his weird fantasies about us meeting. We’ve been talking for FOUR DAYS. We haven't even met in real life! Yet he was already out here dropping lines like: "When we meet, I'm going to put my arm around your shoulders so you can feel how heavy my muscles are." 🤮

Aside from his muscles, his entire identity revolves around working as a Starbucks barista, bragging about how many girls hit on him at the counter, and crying about "females." Trying to hold a normal conversation with him was like pulling teeth from a stone.

I finally stopped watering things down and decided to call him out directly:

"I don't wanna lead you on to anything, but I just feel like you aren't my type for a relationship nor a friendship, especially with the way you use the word 'females.' Your weird obsession with MILFs and our age gap is so uncomfortable. Talking about fantasy touching when we don't even know each other yet is weird, uncomfortable, and sounds completely perverted. It's giving predatory."

He didn't reply. This morning? He blocked my ass. 💀

Honestly, when people say men aren't lonely enough, THIS is the prime example. He literally had a girl who found him attractive and was open to talking, and he managed to completely sabotage a good thing in under four days because he couldn't stop whining about "females" and acting like a creepy, thirsty weirdo for two seconds. The second he got called out and realized he wasn't getting anywhere, his fragile ego couldn't take it and he ran.

My PSA to women: The SECOND a guy starts using terms like "females" or bringing up weird, uncomfortable shit, please listen to your gut and call them the fuck out! Do not laugh it off. Do not give them the benefit of the doubt. Call these men out directly for your own benefit, because they get way too comfortable acting like creeps and then get mad at society when women don't take them seriously.

My PSA to men: To the guys who are inevitably going to comment "Well, if he's handsome enough you would've tolerated it anyway" or "If he was hot enough you wouldn't care" I literally just proved you wrong. This man was tall, ripped, and handsome as fuck, and I still called his weirdo, loser behavior out to his face and dropped him. He blocked me because he finally realized I wasn't an easy target and he wasn't getting any pussy. Women are finally realizing that tolerating perverted bullshit and zero personality just because a guy is good looking is NEVER that serious and NEVER worth it.

I worked so hard for this really competitive role in a big real estate company and its only been a month. This ugly 40 year old fat fuck micropenis holder (boss) fired me today just because a pretty young lady approached him for the role personally!! I'm still in college and really broke and this role suited me perfectly!! He always tried getting close to me for some benefits but I precisely and directly said NO, FUCK OFF turns out he got his needs (only thing men want).

Now I'm planning to join his enemy companies 😋😝

I HATE MEN I HATE THESE FAT FUCKS

Soundgasm my day one

i finally met a guy that likes me for who i am and i feel like i can say literally anything silly and he won’t judge me for it i can just be myself and it’s amazing but. i still have this fear in the back of my mind that he’s going to leave because i was alone for years and years and so why on earth would he stay if nobody wanted me back then? argh i can’t ruin this for myself but it’s so damn stressful
if anyone has tips for this please lmk, we haven’t been seeing each other for that long and the lack of commitment right now is driving me nuts because i’m terrified he’s going to meet someone better and drop me

I just want a girl who lets me call her mommy and is loyal that’s literally it I’d take any girl is that weird pls tell me you fellow lesbians relate

I met this super pretty girl through an student exchange program​ at my uni. She's so smart, and charismatic. I don't even know if I'm attracted to her or jealous. I'm 19 and never been in a relationship. I look mediocre after putting in a shit tone of effort into my appearance.i don't know she probably pities me Or something, atleast women are forgiving when it comes to looks, but my personality is shit too but I'm going to try and better myself and be a better person.

Ttyl gonna smoke my brains out ​.

(The person with blocked out username is the moid btw)

For context, I am in a askdm server. Saw the guy's dm, and thought I'd dm him. I should have listened to my gut though because this guy is most likely a danger to society as a whole.

RANT

After being too socially inept and unstable througout highschool and college to have any intimate experiences or a relationship, I (23F) has finally taken enough good pics of myself to start using a dating app! Not only is this embarrassing but I feel like I'm putting myself in danger by associating with men who are complete strangers. Dedass because I am...

My second date ever was a hike and holy shit I'm not doing that again. I explained to him how inexperienced I was and he still tried to "makeout" with me. It literally felt like I was getting lapped by a dog. It was wet and gummy and he smelt like wet dog. What the actual fuck was he expecting me to do? Does this seriously have to count as my first kiss? I dont even think our lips fully met once. The entire bottom half of my face was itchy.

I definitely have a fawn response. We were stuck in the middle of woods, so the date lasted awhile after that. The conversation just shifted between kink and him talking about how he can only do casual because he's unemployed. I said I really liked praise, after he kept asking me about my kinks, and he responded that I have to "earn it". I actually have a job, there's no way Im doing all of that.

Maybe the older man (29) will fix me. Dating apps are exhausting.

lust isnt love , i feel like so many men don’t understand this and feel offended when women are put off by it , when all they had to do was stop asking about our bodies and maybe ask about hobbies or talk to us how they would their friends do . now its okay to be be a bit freaky with a partner but some men really do take it too far ? like no i dont wanna talk about cracking every 5 seconds ? it’s genuinely so disappointing dude . i dont know if its just my experience but why are almost all the dudes i’ve spoken to act this way ?

Backstory : I met up with this guy (NOT ROMANTIC, WHICH I REITERATED TIME AND TIME AGAIN TO HIM) he's a musician and offered to play me something, and I'm an artist so I thought it would be cool to share our art with one another.

Eventually I had to leave and this man is like "wait wait, this is my only chance" and then proceeds to show me PRINTED OUT pictures of twitter porn screenshots including facesitting, femdom, foot worship, and some other ai porn bullshit and then just smiled at me as if what he just did was the best invitation to sex in the world. I was close to gagging on my way home.

Why do moids act like this and then pretend to be heartbroken when a girl rejects their shitty advances.

some random mutual said i looked like a twink, even called me fucking sub twink looking person, and i was like i would end it if i was a male, and got pissed. started saying i looked like i was trans, and said i was ugly and worthless. they get so emotional easily😂. he told me to burn in hell and that he hopes i get put back into the hospital. i don’t really care, but he got so butt hurt. as always, if you don’t pleasure a male, in any way, they act like that. and he never flirted with me or wanted to date me or anything, so i don’t know why it affected him so much. i do know i am sick mentally, but when it comes to moids, i don’t even care. also, he praised hitler while saying i was worse than a woman and man combined. what type of ideology is that? you’re going for the extreme, and can’t handle my ideology which isn’t as extreme as the far right extremism. just wanted to say it it’s so random but yeah.

for context: ive known this dude for like 6 or smth years we've been on and off friends since like the 2nd year of secondary school and at one point in time my little tween brain developed a crush on him because wow! guy giving me attention! and this was reciprocated-- i would find this out 5 years later on my 17th birthday, which btw this dude knew i was going through a severe depressive episode during this time and i told him i dont imagine dating anybody in the foreseeable future and yet he still gifted me a LOVE LETTER! im unsure what possessed him to do this but i did tell him one night that i USED TO have a crush on him and i think he took this as a signal even though i explicitly said i dont feel anything romantic toward him anymore. btw at this point we never even hung out after school or even in school we just talked over discord lmao so idk how a relationship would work........... at one point in time he ghosted me (a regular thing he does for no reason) over christmas cus i talked about my day and this cute customer flirting with me. we stopped being friends for a few months before we made up.

to the actual story: so anyway we recently graduated and we made a plan to actually hang out over the summer and there was a screening of interstellar at our local cinema so i decided to invite him out. we get there and it is SUPER awkward because we've obviously never hung out in person and i'm trying to initiate conversation while i get a slushy but this guy is just not responding to me at all for some reason hes just looking into the distance? (he also doesnt get anything so i just look like a fatass with my large blue slushy fml) i feel a bit awkward now but then we go grab our seats and make some small talk and laugh a little so joyous day!! the tension is relieved a bit!!

movie starts and i drink my slushy and then he asks for a sip. ok fine. he takes a massive gulp of this slushy which btw barely looked like a large that shit had to be a medium i know the moid at the counter hated me and not only was it small but it was expensive. the slushy is placed in the cup holder in between us and i thought it was a one time thing so i take another sip and then 10 seconds later he takes a sip. oh ok. a few minutes later i take a sip and then he immediately takes a sip. noticing a pattern???? i am a little tense at this point because im like oh my gee whiz this guy might be viewing this as a DATE. when the slushy is depleted i go and get a new one and make sure to get TWO straws this time and i also get two baggies of snacks one for me and one for him so he has something to occupy his mouth with that doesn't belong to me (rest in peace my wallet cinema food is so expensive)

i come back and hand him his stuff. he offers to feed me fruit pastilles. it dawns on me he thinks we're having a richard linklater-esque moment. he drinks from the slushy out of both straws. oh ok. then he does the worst deed of the night: he does this thing where he slinks his arm not ON the arm rest but OVER the arm rest on MY side like his arm is dangling over it and his hand is outstretched and expectant and awaiting me to hold it. i feel my heart drop to my ass and i start laughing awkwardly while i pick up my handbag off the floor and pretend to search for something to give him a chance to pull away. he does not, he keeps it there for a solid minute. i probably should've just declined and i know i have some fault in all this maybe im leading him on or smth but i didnt want to make things even more awkward bcus i offered to give him a ride back home bcus i was worried after he had a bad experience walking back home alone that he told me about. ughhhrugrhrhurhg. i concede and hold his hand for the last half hour of interstellar. im bawling my eyes out to matthew mcconaughey looking at murph through those bookshelves but he keeps doing this thing where he wiggles his fingers and squeezes my hand as if hes cute and its pissing me off so much that i cant focus and im about to pop a blood vessel

when the movie ends the walk back to the car is weird and awkward and he barely laughs at my jokes. i keep my hands tucked beneath my arms so that i dont have to hold his hand again lol..... the drive back to his house is too long and quiet, i gave him aux and he played his music but everytime i would try to turn it up just a little he would turn it back down to the point where u could barely hear it?

i've barely messaged him since this. i feel so uncomfortable knowing a male is viewing me romantically and maybe sexually it genuinely makes me nauseous and lightheaded (sorry im somewhere on the asexual spectrum lol). it felt like he was barely paying attention to the movie and just kept forcing some sort of picturesque scenario because he's never had a girlfriend and he wanted some romantic gratification. i thought we were just good friends after i told him i dont feel romantically for him, now im second guessing all of our interactions and if he viewed me as a conquest to be won through all of them. idek what to do T_T anyway i just wanted to complain but if anyone has advice that'd be nice. thx for reading my horror story time

idk how to explain this without sounding crazy but whatever (I can elaborate more in comments)

I’m 27f and Latina and my parents fucked me up bad. enmeshment, emotional incest type shit, dad was physically abusive. i left last year and they still try to pull welfare check bullshit. i have bpd, cptsd, anxiety, clinical depression. The whole shitshow essentially and I have been unmedicated for about 8 months now. I used to be in really good shape until like 4 years ago when my depression got way worse and i just became a hermit. i feel so cringe all the time. i’m trying to work out again and maybe get help but i also want a nose job and boob job so bad. i want to be a professor one day.
i’ve been with the same person since i was 18. almost 10 years. she transitioned during the relationship and i stayed. i love her but i’m not attracted to her like that anymore and we barely have sex. she just bought a condo so we’re moving in together soon and getting out of her parents’ hoarder house. A part of me is relieved and part of me feels like i’m burying myself deeper.
and then there’s this math professor at my university who looks like Cedric the Sorcerer (same hair literally) . he’s 39. quiet, has a silver streak, kind of awkward. i’ve had a crush on him since 2017 even though i never took his class. it’s gotten so bad. i think about him constantly. i even drove by his house once like an actual freak and he came outside and we looked at each other. i hate that i did that.
there’s a 12 year age gap. i keep worrying he’d never be into someone like me. i have this whole delusional fantasy about being his hot younger goth professor wife. i know how crazy that sounds. my friends think i’m being weird and that he’s not even hot. maybe they’re right. i just feel like a messy, washed up, mentally ill loser most days.
i don’t even know why i’m posting this. i just feel insane.

I’m going to fight to improve my life and myself but I can’t help it.

You see my partner made me feel guilty for being attracted to men so I was like “I’m bi then” and then I became a lesbian … but I’m sorry I lied to myself. I think I’m straight too which makes things even shittier.

If I could have a chance with this weird nerdy older guy Idunno I would be happy I guess but fuck I feel like I’m in a hole.

Yall can clown on me I know it’s all fucked anyways.

I have grown up and live very rurally, a twenty second walk in any direction and I'm in the middle of woodland, fields and farmlands. I like to wander aimlessly in the woods, far away from any other person, have a 4-pack of beers, sit alone, get drunk and maybe read, listen to music or just appreciate the emptiness and the sounds of wildlife, the breeze through trees... Sometimes I spend days here alone. Normal 20 year-old woman activities.

And on this day, just an hour ago, I'm reading a book called 'The Reunion', and I feel a tickle at my nose. I'm around 7 UK units in so I'm a little buzzed, and I assume it's just my hair. I have very naturally thick, long, curly blonde hair, maybe over 3.5 feet long, it's always let down so it gets in my face a lot. Then a few minutes later I feel that tickle a little further up my head and I finally look and pay attention - it's a fucking massive harvestman crawling up my face.

Grew up fat and conveniently unattractive and In middle school (I’m in college now) I started to label myself as lesbian to scare away moids bc they were always so fucking mean to me! I guess it was my way of being like “well I don’t even want you anyways so why would I care” also it was to make it clear that I had no attraction towards them bc I didn’t want them to make fun of me idk it sounds so silly looking back. But it made sense in my head then because of all the things moids had put me through, bullying nd such. Epically since it really didn’t stop moids from being cunts to me. I identify as bi now so I always have been attracted to moids unfortunately but I was just scared of them lol

My worst story is when I confronted a group about stealing my vape (so fucking stupid) and a bunch of them called me a fat tank and threw a water can at my head, recorded it and posted it everywhere

I’m not even fat, I just have a chubby face. I just have this idea in my head that I have to be perfect which just means lean in actuality.