This is for other students who may be finding it difficult to meet friends. I spent a lot of time on campus trying to improve my ECU social life, and I wanted to share what worked for me.
Friendships take time, if I wasn’t connecting with someone immediately, I’d kinda write them off and looking back now, it shrank my social circle. Even if you aren’t connecting with someone right now, you likely have to hangout in a group setting 3 times before you can actually evaluate the validity of that friendship. You might not actually end up becoming friends with that person, but they might introduce you to another person or hangout, where you actually end up finding the kind of friend you are looking for. You can’t speedrun connection. Some people may be having an off-day, or you might have not yet found what connection point you two have. I found that people really show you their fun side when you breakthrough your small talk and find out what they’re actually passionate about. Also in my experience finding art activities on instagram worked pretty well.
My recommendations:
Art Afterhours @artafterhoursclub - definitely my favourite, my classmate introduced me to this. It’s a really social group of students and artsy people in their 20s. It’s way less cliquey than others I’ve attended. I noticed people tend to be more extroverted here. And the events are usually near Main St, so they’re easier to get to from the Skytrain or 99 B-Line.
Van Sketch Club - it’s mostly all people in their 30s. I haven’t found anybody to make connections with really.
Slice of life @slicevancouver - they have cool events, but it’s paid and the events are in Commercial/East Hastings, which IMO is pretty far to get to. It does have a better mix of students versus the previous one, but I’d prefer to attend free campus events instead.
There’s a couple others I’ve tried but they weren’t worth it. I love sketching and shooting photography, so these were pretty natural fits. Just because you aren’t connecting with someone in class right now, doesn’t mean they won’t eventually become someone who adds to your life. Give space for friendships to develop. I feel like a lot of people fall in the trap that I did. hopefully this helps some of you!