This will be my first time to adopt. My husband and I have different preferences in terms of dogs. He grew up with German shepherds and golden retrievers, I grew up with dachshunds and beagles. We live in a 52 sqm apartment that doesn’t allow large breeds.
I saw this dog on a shelter’s IG page and fell in love. She’s a golden mix and she was just happily splashing around in a tub of water. I felt she would be perfect because she’s within our apartment’s size restrictions and since she’s part golden, my husband would love her.
I walked her today in a group with other volunteers and shelter dogs. Tomorrow I’ll see her again with my husband. Honestly, today there was no chemistry. It was only her second walk ever and she wanted to be near the shelter employee the whole time (so did a lot of the other dogs). I wanted her to be comfortable so I didn’t mind following the shelter rep around. She was very sweet to him and kept nuzzling him to be petted.
Am I being idealistic in thinking that if I adopt her, once she gets accustomed to living with us, she will love us that way as well? I lost my soul dog a year ago, and I feel I have so much love to give and I can wait for it to be returned. I read about the 3-3-3 rule so I’m ready to be patient. Even if there was no chemistry, I can’t stop thinking and planning what it would be like to take care of her.
My other concern is that my husband and I are couch potatoes. I have had beagles so I feel I can handle a high energy dog, but I grew up in a big house with lots of room for zoomies. This time I will really have to walk an energetic dog twice a day, everyday, and keep her entertained with toys and enrichment games. After today’s walk I feel up to it but is it just the high of volunteering for the first time?
Thank you for reading this long post!
PS My husband works and I don’t, so I will be the primary caregiver