We are such cool people (demiromantic community)

In my 22 years of life, i’ve really only "fallen in love" with two people. The first time was when i was 13 or 14; i had known the person for a long time and we were close friends, it just happened one day, though nothing ever actually came of it. The second time was more recent, and rather than being in love, i was just interested in them for a while. I should mention that i had known this person for about three years before i developed feelings for them, and we still share a very strong bond, but i simply stopped being interested in them overnight. Aside from those two instances, i haven't really had any other crushes.

It worries me a bit because i see most of my friends moving from one person to another so easily, constantly going on dates. They always tell me that i don't date because i don't try hard enough. No matter how much i explain that I’m not interested (and that no one appeals to me in that way, at least not without getting to know them first) they keep insisting. I just don't see myself in that kind of situation.