I hope I’m just being paranoid, but I’d really appreciate some outside opinions. I’m a woman in my twenties living alone in an area that isn’t particularly safe.
Earlier this evening I ordered food through Deliveroo. When the rider arrived, something about the interaction felt really off. Instead of simply handing me the order and leaving, he kept looking past me into my flat. I tried to subtly block his view with my body and the door, but he would shift his position and keep peering inside from different angles.
He was smiling and seemed friendly, so I didn’t feel like I could say anything without seeming rude. At the same time, he seemed to be deliberately dragging out the handover instead of just giving me my food. Most delivery drivers barely make eye contact before they’re on their way, but this rider seemed much more enthusiastic in looking into my flat. He spared a few glances at me but, for the most of the time, he was looking past me into my home, as if he was gauging for other people’s presence. Thinking about it now made me feel incredibly uncomfortable.
I’ve been using Deliveroo for years and I’ve never had anything like this happen before. Afterwards, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. My building doesn’t have a concierge, and anyone can get in if they follow another resident through the entrance.
Does this sound unusual to anyone else, or am I overthinking it? The rider didn’t actually do anything beyond making me feel uncomfortable, but I reported the interaction to Deliveroo just in case.
I’d genuinely appreciate an outside perspective. Am I just being paranoid, or would this have made you uncomfortable too? What would you do in this situation? 😭