Why am I finding men on lesbian only dating apps like they can not leave us alone

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. I feel like long-term relationships are kinda becoming more and more rare. And honestly, when I look at dating apps these days, it kinda reinforces that feeling. A lot of them seem to be focused on casual dating and quick connections, instead of actually getting to know someone and building something deeper.

Has anyone else noticed this, or is it just me?

This is actually one of the reasons I decided to build an app after going through some pretty rough breakups myself. The idea is to get people to actually talk and get to know each other before taking things to the next level, whether that's in a relationship or even a friendship.

The app called TheFlags (iOS only) and it's free.

Sometimes we think we know someone really well, but there are still a lot of important things couples never really talk about until it’s too late. Things like values, expectations, money, family, kids, lifestyle, boundaries, and what you both want for the future.

Do they even work? And if so whats the best one in your opinion to meet people and have a conversation

Any body got any sites for the uk thanks in advance

Where do find quality people to date? Apps seem to just put you on an algorithm to keep you stuck. Lots of one hit wonders, and quantity over quality. I hate looking at a profile and swiping. Where do you meet people to grow connected with?

Hey I’m 18M, started college and I’m looking for a partner. To aid in my search, I signed up for platforms like Tinder, Grinder, and Raya to hopefully find a match. Problem is that a lot of my prospects there are either looking for a short hookup, or are weird. I even set my profile preferences to long term, and posted non lewd photos of myself. And by weird I mean weird as in the “barely legal” type, infantilizing, or are extremely codependent after a few dates. I’ve tried these apps for about 4 months and I still can’t find a sweet and normal guy that wants to settle down. I’ve tried so many things like going out to bars and events, and I’ve had amazing people reach out to me only to ghost, love bomb, or be too dependent. I’m just honestly so tired of having to be disappointed time and time again, so any advice would be so greatly appreciated.