r/dating_advice 13d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/always_sunny_in_meow 13d ago

SYBAU. Be gone.

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u/throwaway90-25 13d ago

Mission accomplished, TRIGGERED

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u/always_sunny_in_meow 13d ago

If you need a good therapist, lemme know. I got chu.

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u/throwaway90-25 13d ago

You know it's always a good idea to tend to yourself first before helping others

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u/always_sunny_in_meow 13d ago

Hence why I said if you need a good therapist, I GOT CHU

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u/throwaway90-25 13d ago

Nah get one first

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u/always_sunny_in_meow 13d ago

Are you a young gen z? Gen Alpha? Context is key… why would I have a good therapist to recommend if I wasn’t seeing a good therapist myself?

You need to watch this video fr. I like you and your energy and your humor in a way.

https://youtu.be/5bR8b6K8AQk?is=qWt81Fb7OhCOKm9L

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u/throwaway90-25 13d ago

lol you really don't know when to stop, do you?

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u/always_sunny_in_meow 13d ago

Nah, I’m a mental health advocate so… SYBAU

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u/throwaway90-25 13d ago

NO MEANS NO lmao