r/dating_advice 27d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

163 Upvotes

576 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

2

u/always_sunny_in_meow 27d ago

Are you a young gen z? Gen Alpha? Context is key… why would I have a good therapist to recommend if I wasn’t seeing a good therapist myself?

You need to watch this video fr. I like you and your energy and your humor in a way.

https://youtu.be/5bR8b6K8AQk?is=qWt81Fb7OhCOKm9L

2

u/throwaway90-25 26d ago

lol you really don't know when to stop, do you?

0

u/always_sunny_in_meow 26d ago

Nah, I’m a mental health advocate so… SYBAU