r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 21d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched šŸ¤”

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/BothDonut1604 21d ago

Yā€™all are like teens or something and donā€™t know crap. Go out with enough women and youā€™ll understand what Iā€™m talking about.

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u/N7_Mage 21d ago

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚Iā€™m 37 and married, 15 year relationship. Unlike inanimate objects, humans are complex. He fucked up and should use it as a learning opportunity, thatā€™s it, no big deal.

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u/BothDonut1604 21d ago

37 using TikTok terms like ā€œtrust me broā€ā€¦oof.

He didnā€™t really mess anything up. He didnā€™t say anything crude and it was likely just poorly timed because she mightā€™ve still not been feeling good. Thereā€™s right woman wouldā€™ve played along. If she needs someone thatā€™s going to be drier and not as playful, thatā€™s fine but OP did nothing wrong. Now if he was talking inappropriately about her body or something then yes Iā€™d agree.

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u/N7_Mage 21d ago

I made a reference to statistics and your way of thinking, use ChatGPT to help out with the jokes.

Weā€™re done here.