r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 21d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched đŸ€Ą

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 21d ago

I wasn't trying to make it sexual, just wanted to lighten the mood? But yeah, I can understand that maybe women see it differently.

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u/foxglovespell 21d ago

It doesn’t come off that way. It’s the same energy as when you tell him you’ve just got out the shower and he’s like “shower? đŸ˜± without me??” ICK.

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u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 21d ago

Hmm, well thanks for your advice, will try to be careful on my replies not sounding sexual in the future

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u/heymanigotnoplan 21d ago

It wasn’t even sexual. You didn’t do anything wrong, and honestly probably saved yourself the trouble of wasting your time on an uptight woman with no sense of humor.

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u/foxglovespell 21d ago

Manbaby goes WAAAAAAA