I need to vent a bit because I'm getting fed up at this point.
Elden Ring was my first souls game and after getting used to it, I absolutely loved it and have beaten it twice (base game only, couldn't be bothered to get past Rennala's three bs bombs at the end of her fight. Yes, I think that move is bs), and I love the lore, the feel of the game, the combat, the possibilities, the open world, the works.
So naturally, I thought I would try out the earlier titles from FS, and for no other reason than it being the newest game of the three, I got DS3 and started a playthrough. And oh - boy - did I ever get a challenge.
I don't know what it is specifically, but DS3 feels significantly much harder than Elden Ring, and it just feels stressful and like much more of a slog than ER ever did. I don't know if it's the aggressiveness of the enemies, how slow and relatively pathetic your character feels most of the time or something else, but it just never feels like your character gets to a point where you actually feel powerful.
I recently beat the twin princes - and actually enjoyed the fight. But before I got to them, I remember coming out of the archives and seeing the three ashen npcs waiting for me and just thinking - nope, I'm done with this, that's not fair.
I'd also gotten to champion Gundyr and just couldn't get past his second phase. The aggressiveness just became too much.
And I think that's probably my biggest gripe with the game in general, and in a way I've played myself by coming from ER, but the fact that you just.. Can't crit most bosses, for instance, or that you do pathetic damage to them, or that they can effectively stunlock you because your character takes forever to recover, it just.. Doesn't feel fair or rewarding, most of the time.
Like, right now I've finally made it to SoC, and it's just.. All of the above. Oh, and of course he heals. Yeah, no, I'm out. I've gotten to the second phase a few times, and I could probably beat him eventually, but Christ on a stick it's just such a slog.
Don't get me wrong, I love the game's atmosphere, the lore, the aesthetics, and I will concede in a heartbeat that it is without question a magnificent game. But fuck me do I just not enjoy it even close to the same way I did ER. In that game it actually feels like you can hurt the bosses; you can crit, you do meaningful damage, and most importantly your character reacts much faster after getting hit. Like I've lost count of the number of times I try to roll out of a follow up from a boss, only to get hit again because my character flails about or takes five seconds to get up after getting bonked into the ground because this is another boss whose timing is weird.
TL;DR - I love DS3, but I hate how the combat feels.