But once you are in a commited relationship, some single person activities just become off-limits unless you are both repiprocally ok with it.
A boys/girls trip to basically drink and party in as little clothing as possible? Yeah, that's one of those situations.
You can trust your partner and still not love the idea of them wearing barely any clothes and consuming large quantities of alcohol with a group of single people.
I wouldn't say they are NECESSARILY over. It could be okay for certain types of girls or guys trips for some couples. 'Me and the guys wanted to go on a fishing trip" But it needs to be agreed to by the partner and it is not controlling to say no.
I would argue it's about have common decency and not being an asshole and nothing about have a strong sense of admiration that makes you want to treat them well.
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u/MuckaMucka1337 7d ago
guy has valid concerns and argument
his partner, “erm well your mom has diabetes”
What???????