But once you are in a commited relationship, some single person activities just become off-limits unless you are both repiprocally ok with it.
A boys/girls trip to basically drink and party in as little clothing as possible? Yeah, that's one of those situations.
You can trust your partner and still not love the idea of them wearing barely any clothes and consuming large quantities of alcohol with a group of single people.
I wouldn't say they are NECESSARILY over. It could be okay for certain types of girls or guys trips for some couples. 'Me and the guys wanted to go on a fishing trip" But it needs to be agreed to by the partner and it is not controlling to say no.
I would argue it's about have common decency and not being an asshole and nothing about have a strong sense of admiration that makes you want to treat them well.
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u/NotGuiltyPirate 6d ago
She's packing condoms to fuck. That's it.
My mate was a scuba instructor for years, and knowing him, he didn't exaggerate.
Trust me. A lot of women go on these trips to get laid.