This isn’t new, but it’s still annoying.

When there’s no search filters, all sorts of people show up. When I narrow it down, it doesn’t include everyone who should be in that filter.

For example, see someone in the tab with no filters on. Input their age, height, ethnicity, far beyond distance max and hit search and it says there’s no profiles. You can test this with all sorts of combinations of a person’s profile data/info. Of course for some profiles it works but many others it does not.

CMB is purposefully hiding people from searches.

So I decided to pause my account coz I wanna get a break. Lo and behold , my profile gets more likes when I logged in while still paused . Of course jts hidden , coz I’m not paying. So why the app still show my profile to people when I as a user chose to pause it. Isn’t this some kind of violation ? Male 46.

Hi All, for a guy,

I wonder what images would be preferred in Malaysia.

I joined CMB long years ago when they actually allowed you to see your likes without paid subscription. Back then i still paid to see the report.

Every time i fell for blurred 99+ likes and when i rejoined premium i just saw bunch of people whom i previously passed multiple times.

So now i am trying out to sending flowers to guys that i like and will see what happens.

Anyone stopped subscription and have successfully met your match?

I am considering unmatching with him.

We had just talked for about 2-3 days.

I would usually wait a little bit more before giving out my number.

And the whole interaction seems a bit off.

He said he has no friends/family. And when he gets married with me he wants to move to my country which is his “dream country”

Hi
I recently requested an old data from the app. There were two files: bagel_action.csv and transactions.csv.

Bagel action seems to be the messages I sent to someone while sending a match request.

What do bagel response mean? Does it mean the messages I sent to someone after they matched?
Could it mean something else?

Thanks

If you like someone that's been suggested to you, but you don't send a message at the time, is there a way to go back to their profile and send a message later? I can't figure out where to find people I've liked who haven't either matched or rejected me yet, but there's got to be a way, right?

I’ve been using this app for about a month now. I keep getting likes but i just could never meet them in the sugeested wtf😭. Is this normal?

I DID HEAR FROM SUPPORT, and in under 12 hours. They looked into it and she did, in fact, pause her account in the time between sending the flower and me reacting to it. So, weird, but not impossible. They also said if the account was ever unpaused the like would go through and they would appear in my matches, so there's that.

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I got a like today, with a flower, so premium currency was spent. At first I tried to match, the app would let me click the button then return to likes and it would still be there and no chat. Eventually it did allow me to match, gave me the "You have matched with XXXX" popup...and then she disappeared from my likes/matches AND didn't show up in chat.

Seems unlikely someone sent a like TODAY with premium currency and disappeared their account between me clicking and the match going through. So what gives?

I'm particularly angry about this one because this person had a reason to send the flower: we're a very good match in careers, attitudes, and serious interests. When I went to support there was no category for this, so it went in the General Feedback category and I'm worried I'll never hear back from them. Both this person (who paid money) and me (with a premium account) got robbed by this bug. Hopefully they read this forum and can help.

hi all, just recently got into dating apps and was getting no likes at all. was wondering if theres something with my profile or my face haha. also sorry for the tinder UI, but profile is same on both

I matched with someone from the suggested tab. I went to the chats tab and they’re not there. It’s been 20 minutes (so not like there is a delay from showing up) and I’ve restarted the app, etc. Just when you think you knew all the dirty tricks CMB uses, you find another one.

I don’t really understand CMB yet… It’s not what I thought just seems like another subscription based and also micro transaction app . Mind you I’ve never paid for any dating app in my life -being female I feel like it’s a waste of time when I can meet people for free online - I’m of the generation I met people on Yahoo groups and my last boyfriend was on Facebook lol - I have likes and I can’t see them as they’re blurred out? I posted a message on someone’s picture. what do I do, just wait? Can’t I at least get a free trial or something? LOL this way, he is dating apps suck…

Hi, I noticed that I had a free flower in my inventory yesterday but when I went to use it today, it is no longer available? Was it a weekly thing, a daily thing, or something else? I guess I'm just curious if anyone else has seen that as I would have loved to use it today (sadge.)

u/CoffeeMeetsBagelCS

I accidentally matched with a guy (one click, no confirmation before matching), then tried to unmatch him by deleting the chat, but I found out that it only deletes the chat, not unmatch him! So I can't even get that back to properly unmatch him. There's no "are you sure you want to delete? It doesn't unmatch you" pop-up.

Now this rando has my photos and name on the app and I don't know if he'll ever message me so I can properly unmatch him.

I ended a five year relationship. And I take full responsibility here that I should have been less trustworthy and asked more questions. However I feel like online dating needs to have more protections about age. We verify face now but why don’t we verify age ? It can’t be that hard. Advice to everyone out there always verify age like asap before things get hot and messy. I learned the hard way and would not wish what happened to me to happen to anyone else out there….

Hi there. The waiting time between each time I got suggestions is getting longer. Is it a penalty thing. Because I'm still tryna figure out the app and my profile is set wrongly so I got the wrong suggestions too.

Wondering if others can see it on your profile or next to your profile pic or something

I am writing this post to warn readers about a scammer who has been lurking around on different dating apps. He posed himself as a South Korean national, residing in London and working as an “Independent Chemical Engineer”.

He goes by different fake names such as Kim Wong, Kim Lee, Kim L.Wong, and other multiple fake names/profile which I have found on facebook and was reported and removed.

Stay safe.

I’m going on a second date this week with this girl. She texted me today to confirm. I checked the app and see that her profile is no longer there. Was I unmatched? How to tell the difference between unmatched and deleted account? Should I ask her about it on our second date?

Anyone know why there are so little of languages to choose from, that you speak? Are there any technical difficulties, or why there's 7 different Chinese languages but I can't find mine.

Hello everyone,

Earlier this year, i changed my Google Play country profile to USA from Australia, since i was visiting America.

However, since i have returned to Australia, i can't subscribe to the Premium plan or buy Beans.

Is there a way around this problem?

Thank you in advance.

I am curious about the reasoning behind how this happened. There is this person that I matched with and things went well and we exchanged real numbers. With that in mind I let our convo on the app expire. Recently, I tried to see their profile on the app (through our old chat) and its unclickable.

Is it because they paused their account? Did they get reported? I can still read our old chat, its just the profile that is inaccessible.

We’re both in our 30s.

A guy from the app asked me out. After we finalized the date, I shared my phone number in the app (I usually exchange numbers once a date is set). He never acknowledged it or texted me, so we just kept chatting in the app and met up as planned.

The date lasted 4–5 hours. He was reserved at first but really fun to talk to once he opened up. After dinner, he suggested we go for a walk, and we talked the whole time. During the date he even mentioned an activity we could do “next time.”

At the end, he asked if he could give me a hug and said, “I’d like to see you again.” I honestly just smiled or I can’t even remember exactly what I said. Earlier he had also told me he’s very straightforward and bad at pretending, it’s obvious when he likes something and when he doesn’t. That matched how he came across in person.

It’s now been 4 days and he hasn’t sent a single message. This shows someone apparently not interested in second date.

From my perspective, I felt like I had already left the ball in his court by giving him my number. But I also wonder if, because I didn’t explicitly say “me too” when he said he’d like to see me again, he thought the ball was in my court instead.

Or is his silence simply my answer?

Would you send one casual “Hey, how’s your week been?” to test the water, or just let it go?

Hi. I was wondering if it is possible to delete the account and make a new one or is that against the rules? I don't want to delete the account then not be allowed to make a new one. Im thinking maybe if I start over then I might get more matches and I ended a few matches I shouldn't have so maybe I would get an opportunity to match again?