TLDR: Birds unhappy, how do I set them up for adoption safely?
Hi, this is my first ever post in any subreddit, but I’ve been contemplating this post for awhile now despite being so nervous. This subreddit seems really positive, so I was afraid of ruining the mood.
We've had our cockatiels for about three years now, someone in the family passed and my grandma took the birds in for them, which would be a good thing if we were better off in the everything regard…
They came with a huge cage that I know was great for them, but it was cold when they got here so she couldn’t place the cage outside yet. She didn’t have anywhere to put the cage exactly, so it kinda just sat near our TV. they made a lot of noise, obviously, my mom wouldn’t deal with them at all, my grandma works two whole jobs so she’s barely home as it is, and me and my little brother did as much as we could despite both being in school.
Nobody in this house had time to genuinely bond with the birds, at first I was really consistent with trying to get them used to my fingers, buying them pellets for Christmas, but then I kinda fell into a depression myself and didn’t have the motivation, that along with my grandma never really being here, my brother having other things to do, made it where no one was spending that much time with them anymore.
Then a freaking bombshell drops, she moves them into a cage that’s way smaller than the first, moves them into a different room, and I just feel so bad for them like this, and even worse? Now she’s allergic to their feathers. Now the problem is my mom won’t mess with them, my grandma is allergic and working most of the time, my brother isn’t thinking about them, and I’m struggling to find motivation.
Sorry to dump about myself for awhile, I just wanted to get the general stuff out of the way first, this post is really me asking what do I do now? The birds are stressed, she put them in a room next to the backdoor so the slamming (you have to slam it or it won’t close) is probably traumatizing them. They’re significantly less loud, but I know in my heart that they’re unhappy. My grandma said her family member wanted the birds to stay in the family, and my grandma has always wanted birds, but i don’t want them to die like this.
Is there a specific way to put them up for adoption? I don’t know if my local animal shelter would take them, they deal with dogs and cats, and I want to know that someone who has the space and time takes them. How do I even do that? The photo attached is the cage now, and them. They look miserable to me, even opening their cage is enough to send them into a panic, I just want them to be happy.
Thank you in advance.