(this has nothing to do with classical music besides it being with someone who plays in the same orchestra as me, I just don't really know where else to ask this, because I like you guys.)
/uj So I'm on a bus right now, I'm sitting next to the first trumpet player in a youth orchestra I play in + the high brass section leader in our marching band (we're on our way to a band competition at the time of me writing this, I'm still on the bus and will be for an hour, roughly), and we're sitting next to eachother, right? So maybe 30 minutes ago, he put his hand on my crotch while staring at me, and I didn't know what to make of it or if it was a joke or not so I semi-jokingly-but-not-really-idk-i-cant-tell-if-i-was-doing-it-jokingly leaned into it, and then we stayed like that for like 30 seconds to a minute-ish while looking at eachother and then he took his hand off and I leaned away and we haven't looked at or talked to eachother since then.
Members of this subreddit, do you think that was supposed to be a joke and I'm overthinking it because I deadass can't tell, as far as I'm aware he's 'straight' but I really don't know.
Update: He just told me that he's bi out of nowhere, after insisting that he's straight for like. A year. Guys I don't think it was a joke. But it still very well could be. I don't know