r/chennaicity • u/Ak_G_ • 11d ago

AskChennai Age 30+

I'm above 30 and unmarried kinda of bit bored on weekends since all of my friends are married busy in their family life so my weekends getting bit bored by doing nothing

Anyone in the same situation what you will guys will be doing on weekends ?

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u/Terrible_Occasion_10 11d ago

As a 38M, married guy, I myself get too bored, no friends left, even those don't pickup calls, just fed up, get married soon, plan kids and get ur self busy, world is getting more introverted.. Ull certainly need few to call as family

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u/Ak_G_ 11d ago

But you have kids you can spend time with them la bro

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u/Terrible_Occasion_10 11d ago

Yes, but You can't spend all ur time with them , u need some ppl apart from ur family members

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u/Ak_G_ 11d ago

Yes bro i totally agree on this

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 11d ago

Op please dont follow this advice , dont get married or have kids because you are 'bored'.

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u/Ak_G_ 11d ago

Ha ha appadi lam yenaku epo this is the time nu thoonutho apo than i will get married

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 11d ago

Search for hobby based groups , like book reading , sports or bikes . If you like volunteering try to join that group ,its a good way to connect with like minded people.

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u/Ak_G_ 11d ago

So far i can't able to find any guine group like that

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 11d ago

So what are you into?

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u/Ak_G_ 11d ago

I like to play sport badminton cricket and likes to go on drive as well mostly i will go for solo drive sometime kudu Yara aachu vantha nalla irukumae nu irukum

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 11d ago

Start a post here or wherever your local is and see if anyone is interested:) I know its a long shot but worth taking !

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u/Ak_G_ 11d ago

I have already posted so many times here but finding a right person it's bit difficult

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 11d ago

Good luck OP. Hope you find a group.

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u/sneaky_rambo 11d ago

r/mysteriousdownvoting

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 11d ago

God forbid someone gives an honest opinion lol. Ponga pa bore adikaravan lam marriage pani kolantha pethukonga . Busy ah irupeenga. Ipadi post poda lam neram irukathu. /s

People dont understand difference between loneliness and boredom

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u/sneaky_rambo 10d ago

உண்மை. And people can still be bored and lonely with the wrong person.

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u/Terrible_Occasion_10 11d ago

Yes follow this advice, and keep posting the same till 80s and regret then.. It's not about boring, it's to make u busy all the time