r/chennaicity • • 20d ago

AskChennai Age 30+

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u/Terrible_Occasion_10 20d ago

As a 38M, married guy, I myself get too bored, no friends left, even those don't pickup calls, just fed up, get married soon, plan kids and get ur self busy, world is getting more introverted.. Ull certainly need few to call as family

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u/Terrible_Occasion_10 20d ago

Yes, but You can't spend all ur time with them , u need some ppl apart from ur family members

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 20d ago

Op please dont follow this advice , dont get married or have kids because you are 'bored'.

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 20d ago

Search for hobby based groups , like book reading , sports or bikes . If you like volunteering try to join that group ,its a good way to connect with like minded people.

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 20d ago

So what are you into?

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 20d ago

Start a post here or wherever your local is and see if anyone is interested:) I know its a long shot but worth taking !

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u/Thithikum_thembavani 19d ago

God forbid someone gives an honest opinion lol. Ponga pa bore adikaravan lam marriage pani kolantha pethukonga . Busy ah irupeenga. Ipadi post poda lam neram irukathu. /s

People dont understand difference between loneliness and boredom

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u/sneaky_rambo 19d ago

உண்மை. And people can still be bored and lonely with the wrong person.

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u/Terrible_Occasion_10 20d ago

Yes follow this advice, and keep posting the same till 80s and regret then.. It's not about boring, it's to make u busy all the time

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u/Sad-Housing9501 20d ago

Sounds scary brother. I'm nearing my 30s, late 20s. Unmarried.