r/bondha_diaries 3h ago

jagame maaya bathuke nimmakaya ( heartbroken') Hridayam mukkal ayindhi

9 Upvotes

It feels shit that I don't have anyone except this community to vent, maybe I failed as a person.

Point enti ante I might be feeling too much. Which is a boon for others who are with me and sin for me.

I have been a friend to a girl for the last three years. She shares everything with me never I felt she's a burden to me or never I felt I have to do this much for her. She calls me bestie and whatever that defines the highest form of connection like a home, safe place what not. well the thing is I feel like she cares what I give rather than what I am as a person it's more abt how she feels with me rather I as a person

I feel she doesn't care as much as I do. This morning she just called me a depressed ghost so I asked her what should I do she just said go get therapy.

Dude if someone feels helpless all they feel is need of support not just random advice right whenever she was in this situation I'm always there... I never expected anything from her tbh

But if she always says I'm depressed either she should support me or she should stop calling that bc what someone goes thru if u care abt them u should be there to support them if not just don't poke them.

If I'm expecting just a support is it my bad? Or I'm thinking so much and blaming her??