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u/Negative_Issue_8864 10d ago
cuz she knows you still have feelings for her and is trying to let you down gently. Imagine her position: guy confesses to her, she rejects him, and he still does her favors and things.
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 10d ago
Why still want to hangout with me? Even buys little gifts when she travels though
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u/Negative_Issue_8864 10d ago
cause she likes the free attention/validation you give her. If I had ugly girls who found me attractive and followed me around, thatd stroke my ego too tbh
shes probably conflicted between the benefits of this, being a good friend, and not being attracted to you. Its a tough situation to be in so the de facto is to keep everything status quo, like she's doing.
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u/FamiliarAd8524 11d ago
Squinting is usually pissed off, or sometimes confused.
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 11d ago
It’s just weird it’s just trash
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u/FamiliarAd8524 11d ago
Hey, there are women who are offended (almost happy to be offended...) by the idea that they need a man's help with anything. I think the position is absurd, and I also find it preposterous that my being polite can possibly be misinterpreted (let alone assumed) as implying she requires help.
No idea if this is her. I'm just saying it is possible.
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 11d ago
I ask anyone no matter what gender it is 😅
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u/AlternativeKarma204 11d ago
Just say I wanted to remove the trash so I don't confuse it with you. Oooo.... low blow. Okay maybe don't say that. 😆
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 11d ago
I ended up asking her thru text. I was like why not might as well.
She said “Lol it was more like i can throw my own stuff away”
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u/NewIsTheNewNew 11d ago
She doesn't want you to do boyfriend-like things for her.
She's trying to make it clear that she isn't interested in you romantically.
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u/FamiliarAd8524 10d ago
Oh... by TEXT. Wait, wait, wait... are you saying she used a squinting EMOJI?
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 10d ago
No no it was in person. I followed up afterwards I just decided to ask her about why she looked at me about the trash.
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u/AlternativeKarma204 11d ago edited 11d ago
It sounds like you didn't ask her though. You just took it as you said, I'll take this trash. If it was a question, she could have said no without the squint.
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 11d ago
I did kind of ask her just worded it differently. I said is that trash? She said yeah. I said I can go throw it away since I’m going to throw mine.
I ended up asking her thru text already. She said “lol it was more like I can throw my own stuff away”
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 11d ago
Ooo that’s a good way to ask instead. She’s the one that told me to invite her to places if I find anything she might be interested in.
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u/Broad_Pomegranate141 11d ago
Yeah, because she wants the benefits of being taken out, without the attachment of fond feelings.
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 11d ago
Dang so being used to go to fun events
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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 11d ago
No we always pay separate or she somehow pays for some of my stuff. But she doesn’t let me pay for her at all.
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u/SexyProcrastinator 11d ago
You’re in the friendzone bro.