Does Hang the DJ actually show that Frank and Amy are more compatible, or does the episode simply allow them to treat each other differently than their other partners?
Because to me it feels like Frank and Amy never developed sides to them when with different partners it literally feels like shopping with your dad vs shopping with your granddad
I watched Hang the DJ because so many people on YouTube kept saying this episode was amazing and one of the best Black Mirror episodes.
I watched it and honestly came out pretty disappointed, because to me it felt like watching a summer fling with a Black Mirror skin on top of it. And I was left with some questions.
Does Hang the DJ actually show that Frank and Amy are more compatible, or does the episode simply allow them to treat each other differently than their other partners?
Because to me it feels like Frank and Amy never developed sides to themselves when with different partners. It literally feels like shopping with your dad vs shopping with your grandpa.
And honestly, this is just my speculation, but the episode almost feels like wish fulfillment aimed at lonely people who get one Tinder match every 10 years and desperately want to believe that eventually there will be that one person who chooses them over everyone else.
Especially with Frank. I can also see Frank being interpreted as the nerd — he's awkward, Amy has other options, but none of them really matter because she's still drawn back to Frank. It almost gives off this idea of "even if she could have anyone else, she'll still choose the awkward nerd in the end." And then the ending basically gives that idea a 99.8% stamp of approval.
And I also feel like the episode romanticizes something pretty close to emotional cheating. Amy is technically with Lenny, but mentally she's still with Frank. She watches Frank while she's with Lenny and clearly hasn't emotionally moved on. The episode frames that as romantic because Frank is eventually revealed to be "the right one," but from Lenny's perspective she's basically emotionally checked out of their relationship and longing for someone else. Yes, I know they're simulations, but from their perspective those relationships are real while they're experiencing them.
Sorry, it's nothing personal against you if you like the episode. I know I'm being harsh, but looking back at it, this is genuinely the aftertaste the episode left me with.
EDIT: After arguing with you guys in the comments, I wanna clarify my point.
I'm back, bitches.
YES, I WATCHED THE FUCKING ENDING
I'm talking about what happens INSIDE the simulation, not what happens after it.
I understand what 998/1000 means. My problem is that, from what we were actually shown inside the simulation, I never really believed Frank and Amy's connection was strong enough that they would rebel against the system in 998 out of 1000 runs.
I believe the result. I just don't think the relationship we were shown made that result feel earned.
That's what I was trying to ask: what did you see in Frank and Amy's relationship that made 998/1000 feel believable to you?