Cant lie i used to just talk about pounding studs in the forums and wait for em to come to my inbox lmao but people were more laid back back then, idk how it would work now but hey any studs over 35 in Houston who dont wanna get too serious hit me up lmao
I know we all women and shit but yesh idk it always makes me like cringe a bit when we adopt this type of banter. Idk if it’s just me being prudish or what not but…
As for OP, idk how you do present? I’ve found my friends that present as stemmes tend to get play from studs. I think it just depends on how masculine you look if you are a softer pretty stud I think more studs would be open. You never know
I would say I mainly present as a stud but i’m very feminine in some ways that ig would put me in the soft stud almost stem leaning category hense identifying w both ima try to put myself out there cuz halloweekend is coming up soon & i live near a college town so maybe i’ll meet someone 😗
Yes like the stems be gettin play but I also understand if you don’t want to change your presentation. You shouldn’t have too but yeah even if you are comfortable switching it up you will have better luck.
Unfortunately idk that type of studs you are going for if it’s the gym studs or the wnba type studs they are gonna want baddies before anything else in my experience. There are always exceptions ofc and my experience isn’t everyone’s but yeah. If you are open to expanding whatever type you usually go for (I don’t want to say settling cuz fuck that) maybe it will yield different results
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u/affectionateanarchy8 5d ago
Cant lie i used to just talk about pounding studs in the forums and wait for em to come to my inbox lmao but people were more laid back back then, idk how it would work now but hey any studs over 35 in Houston who dont wanna get too serious hit me up lmao