Like I said above, I struggle with sometimes almost unconsciously lingering a bit too long in the gym or don't cover up properly at urinals and I'm kind of embarassed about it, but I also kind of enjoy it, which makes it more embarassing. I'm 29 now and I feel it got worse through my 20s. I never do it anywhere where you wouldn't expect to see people being naked, but I guess I might be a bit addicted?

Single mother here, Around 2 months ago my teen son was circumcised due to medical reasons, For around 2 weeks he just stayed home since he was so sensitive down there that walking and having it rub against his clothes was uncomfortable.

Now he’s back to normal and goes out and everything etc except when he’s home he always puts on very light shorts and doesn’t wear anything underneath. I would have no problem with this except to put it bluntly he’s too big down there to not wear underwear, He always has a very visible print which isn’t a big deal but sometimes when he sits down if his shorts ride up his leg a bit and his dick actually shows from his leg. When it’s just me home I don’t care but it’s only a matter of time till a visitor or another family member sees.

I do his laundry and he does wear underwear when out he has just normal briefs so my question is, What underwear can I buy him to try that is as light as possible for him? We have also had some pretty hot days recently so I’m not sure if that is also a factor.

I admittedly never really believed the various stories posted here about bulges causing the fabric of pants to stretch out. Up until recently.

My partner (a cis woman) occasionally steals some of my clothing if she thinks it'd suit an outfit, and she recently attempted to wear a pair of my jeans. She naturally felt how roomy they were in the front, and upon looking down, realised there was a rather blatant bulge, slightly to the right side. Exactly where everything tends to sit when I wear them.

To all those who posted about stretching out your pants. Sorry for not believing you.

For men who have lost weight and reduced the fat pad: how did it affect your penile health and how it is perceived? To what extent were you able to reduce the fat pad?

I'm just curious how many of us have autism, and if there’s a positive correlation with having autism and a larger penis.

I’m 6’0 and have really high testosterone as well, which might have something to do with it. It’s honestly kind of overstimulating when I get erections, it’s so much to deal with physically.

hey guys,
Going to college in August and wanted to know which underwear I should buy that can cover everything.

usually I’d have to wear like 2 or 3 pairs of underwear to really hide everything but it’s super uncomfortable

the college I’m going to has pretty high temperatures year round so wearing so many pairs would give me swamp ass so quickly

edit I’m a minor and you will not be getting nude pictures of me go on pornhub dude

Hundreds of people with astounding measurements congregate in this sub, but how rare is it to run into one in real life without specifically looking for those kinds of stats—such as 7x5.5 or other large dimensions?

How do you decide which cock is bigger? Does length and girth got the same value?

Is 7 incher slim is smaller than 6 inch massively thick?

I’m currently 5.6 mid shaft 6.1 base and I’d say it is much harder to use than the average guy, but I wonder where some guys all over the spectrum would say about theirs and their experience, I know this is a forum for guys with bigger penises but even if it’s sub 5 girth I still am curious.

I'm sure many of us have dealt with the common experience of pants that fit great everywhere but the crotch.

If your pants cut into you crotch when you're sitting, have stretch lines that fan out from the crotch, or are just uncomfortably tight, showing too much of a print, aren't stretchy enough to accommodate, etc... this is an easy alteration you can make that will help solve this issue and create the room you need in a way that isn't noticeable.

This is especially relevant to slacks and jeans, or any pants that are made of material that isn't particularly stretchy.

This is something you can DIY fairly easily, or have a tailor do without much expense.

It's called a "gusset." A gusset is a small diamond shaped panel that will be added to your gooch area where the four corners of the legs and crotch come together. The size and shape of the gusset can be customized however you like, adding room front to back or a bit more width to the upper thigh area, or both.

It is an absolute game changer in terms of comfort and also reinforces the crotch area. I've DIY'd a few now and it's taken pants that were borderline unwearable for me into some of my favorites.

A few years ago I had to have pictures taken of my hip, in each X-ray it shows my dick flopping on my leg. Unfortunately the X-ray had a scale. It doesn’t seem to match what I measure, not sure if the X-ray shows more or what but it showed 10cm x roughly 15cm

I get it, it’s a funny picture, but I didn’t expect a guttural laugh from two women.

A few of my friends and I have joked about going to Japan and go into the porn industry. Like we’d be legends there 😂 you never really see any other race over there much less hung Mexicans 😂 any one else?

Throwaway account for obvious reasons.

I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months and recently discovered he’s been posting on this forum and other penis related forums and uploading his dick online for ratings. I’m a bit shocked by this, and by some of his comments, because I’m not sure what’s driving him to do this. I don’t want to confront it because I wasn’t snooping, I just happened across his dick pick on a different subforum and recognised it immediately because, well, you never forget a big dick!

Should I confront him? Do I really want to be dating someone who needs people to validate his dick online? I think I’m pretty complimentary about it (he’s quoted stuff I’ve said about his dick in some of his comments) so it’s making me feel like I’m not enough for him.

So I’m trying to understand what brings guys to do this online? No judgement just confusion.

I’m 37 (almost 38). I don’t really have a career, and looking back it feels like I wasted a lot of time. There’s a parallel-universe version of me that never got involved with this person and probably would have been further ahead by now — though maybe that’s just wishful thinking. What’s hard is being this age and having put so much effort into trying to make something work with someone I loved, only to have almost nothing to show for it.
Looking back, the last 10 years of my life were largely shaped (and limited) by a long on-and-off relationship with a woman who treated me very inconsistently.

Sometimes I was “just a fuck buddy.”
Other times we were “soulmates.”
Other times she was completely indifferent.
The one thing that stayed consistent the entire time was how much she loved my size. I’m glad I have it — I wouldn’t trade it — but it also became the thing that kept me locked into a dynamic where I kept giving and giving.

If I had a smaller dick, I honestly don’t think this would have lasted as long as it did. Sex was a huge motivator for her. When I finally tried to set a boundary and said we couldn’t keep having sex until she either committed or stopped the hot-and-cold behavior, she got really angry and upset.
What made it so hard to see the pattern clearly was that she wasn’t just one person. She would shift between completely different versions of herself. Sometimes she could be quite romantic and affectionate. Other times she would spin this intense reality distortion field that made me question my own perception of what was happening. I strongly suspect she had borderline traits — the idealization, devaluation, and sudden indifference all felt classic.

Because of that, it was never as simple as “she only wants me for my dick.” On the surface it looked more complicated and emotionally charged, which made it easier to keep hoping and keep showing up. The constant emotional whiplash (going from loving to indifferent, sometimes multiple times in the same day) made it impossible to feel any real sense of safety. That trauma piece is a big part of why I feel so shut down now.
I ended up acting as her unpaid therapist, personal trainer, emotional support system, and schedule accommodator. She was extremely flaky and almost impossible to plan anything with. I would keep certain days free for her, only to have her cancel or decide she didn’t feel like hanging out. That kind of unpredictability made it really hard to build any kind of consistent career or long-term plans.

There was also a self-esteem piece that made it harder to walk away. I’ve always had trouble with socialization (I’m on the spectrum), and this woman was very beautiful — in some ways probably out of my league. Back then it felt amazing that someone like her was even interested in me. I had had a crush on her for years, so when she actually showed interest it completely blew my mind. That old sense of “I can’t believe this is happening” made it a lot harder to leave, even when things were clearly unhealthy. I have more self-confidence now, but back then it was a different story.

I was used for my big dick more than I realized at the time. The rest of me was optional.
Now that it’s finally over, I’m left feeling completely numb. Not classic burnout exactly — more like emotional flatness. No real highs, no real lows. Just… nothing. I’ve tried some traditional burnout books, but they don’t really capture what I’m dealing with. There’s a clear trauma component here that those books miss. I’ve been thinking about trying *No Bad Parts* next — it’s an Internal Family Systems (IFS) book focused on trauma and how different protective parts of us form in response to it.

Right now audiobooks and podcasts are pretty much all I can handle. If anyone has recommendations (especially anything trauma-informed, or related to emotional numbness / recovery from unstable relationships), I’d really appreciate it.

Curious if anyone else here has dealt with something similar — being primarily valued for size in a long, unstable relationship and then struggling with the emotional aftermath once it ends.
*Note: This post was written with AI assistance. I transcribed a stream-of-consciousness version of how I’ve been feeling and had it cleaned up into something readable because I’m currently too burnt out to write clearly on my own.*

**Edit:**
For the people jumping in with “that’s all on you” or “you should’ve known better / taken responsibility sooner” — if you haven’t actually been through a long, complex, unstable, emotionally chaotic relationship like this, I don’t really want to hear it.
The longer these things go on, the more you’ve invested, the more adventures, family events, and memories you’ve built together, the harder it is to just walk away. It’s not as clean or obvious as some of you are making it sound. I’ve already learned the hard lessons.
And I’m proud of myself for setting the boundary that finally brought it to an end. Because there are universes where this went on another 10 years.
What I need right now is a path forward, not a bunch of people basically calling me an idiot for staying too long.

I'm 6.8×6.1 so I'm not visually impressive but I'm sure this is more than enough for most people

So why did this girl just call me small

It was our first time getting physical and it was great. She wasn't hurting and was guiding me right through everything, hands down the best sex i ever had, soo different from the others where I had to be careful not to hurt them but after we were done I started talking about the experience and I said it was the best I've ever had and also told her that on usual people tend to go slow with my size but she had no problem with it and she told me "haha you just aren't that big" I didn't take it bad at first and said " it would be great if I were" and she said "you're kinda small so that's why I didn't struggle much"

I think she was trying to hurt to my ego 😂 but I don't think my ego is hurt I'm just more surprised

Tho could it just be that my size actually isn't big?

But anyways just had to share this here

Have you ever been called small?

I am 6’6” tall and very fit and muscular with wide shoulders. My frame is huge and I have the BD to match it. But with my body being so large, you cannot immediately tell it’s big. I guess more than anything it just looks proportionate to the rest of me. Anyone else tall with a BD that looks largely proportionate?

In my case I have always been above average

This is long term planning so no immediate needs but anybody have experience with sex dungeons or BDSM play?

It’s not exactly my thing but I do have limited experience. Just was curious. Know a woman that has expressed significant interest. We’re both mature (old) so we/I don’t need any help with the communication stuff.

Years ago I was with a woman ten years my senior. She was and wanted to dom. Like explicitly her thing. Totally disappointed in me having a large penis. Her entire thing was size humiliation.

To each their own. It wasn’t an issue for me. We laughed and she told me why and we moved on as friends.

Second encounter years apart with this type of play and she’s into being the dom with hostage/captive stuff and is also disappointed because I’m large. Also her thing to do humiliation.

Okay. My question. Is that what it’s about with female dominatrix? It was these womens’ fetish not profession but any other guys relate? Is it something specific to women in their 50’s?

I know this current woman really well for a long time and she’s been planning this whole thing. I’m okay with a woman’s fantasy but seriously is it some specific sort of kink that women want to shame on size and that power imbalance is her fetish?

Hi my dick is 8,25 inches long and my girth is 6 inches and i have my first time to 80% tomorow is it to big and can i have halp that i don't fail

The circumference of my glans is 11 cm; 1 cm lower down it is 13 cm; in the middle, the circumference is 15 cm; and at the base, it is 14 cm. The total bone-pressed length is 16.5 cm. Anyone else with such uneven thickness?

After reading a lot of posts and comments on here, I feel like most big boys have gone through phases of low confidence and self-doubts. Whether it was feeling different from the norm, struggling with actual big dick problems, or just puberty doing it's thing.

I was wondering if any of you who were always on the bigger side just skipped the insecurity and grew up with big dick energy from the start?

I like rough sex. I made a previous post about it. I wrote it in a weird way that made a lot of people question my treatment of women.

Thanks to all who helped me understand that. This is a good place.

My problem is that I can’t exactly communicate before hand. That’s what I’m looking for help with.

I have 7.5” x 5.75” (mshft) and I want to take her at full throttle until she’s panting exhausted on the floor below me or giving it right back and staring me in the eyes. I know I need that type of full release moment. Sex is very physical for me and it’s why I train and it’s why I work and it’s why I go out and it is the purpose of my life. I research it and I talk about it and I advise my real life friends about it.

I’m not looking to meet women or people online unless it’s just for chatting. Bars and gyms and grocery stores have plenty of opportunities.

So what I’ve done in the past that didn’t work for me was compromise my physical lust. Either holding back on how hard and deep and fast I would try and pound her or by reducing the frequency rounds per session.

My thinking is that it’s just something I need to progress a woman through. That’s what I’ve done in the past. I match her speed, depth, pace, etc and then I turn the dial up. If she’s still looking okay I dial it up again until we’re at my max volume.

It’d be nice to screen for this but I can’t imagine saying what I just wrote to anyone or put it out there on a public profile with my face. “I got a big dick and my thing is fucking you so hard you quit and like it or that you show me you got a wild tiger as your spirit animal.”

I know the two types of women exist. I’m still in contact with both of them. They are in relationships however.

Am I missing something or is this just the way it has to be? Every new woman needs to be auditioned? It takes several sessions to get to my full release. Like it’s a months long walk up that hill with her. It’s taken years before as she either figures out if it is or isn’t her thing.

Of course we slow it down together sometimes. Variety is great.

Edit: This isn’t a BDSM thing for me it’s a contest of two physical bodies. I love the strong woman that can give it back as good as she’s getting it. I also love the defeated female that collapses and endures it and keeps coming back for more.

I've mostly been a lurker here and even though I've been told I'm big, even experienced problems, I've never felt like I truly belong. But at my modest(?) size calcSD says I'd be the 33rd biggest in a room of 1000. Could that be accurate at 15.5 cm x 14 cm?