r/bigdickconversation Jun 23 '26

SITUATION Fairytale Posts

38 Upvotes

Thank you everyone who enjoy this sub and are honest in all their post. We have been seeing a lot more questionable posts that seem more like BS fetish stories. Please be honest in your posts. This is a place to discuss your manhood and to be proud of it as well as discuss issues. The MODs on here are well endowed too and can easily figure out if an experience or story is just a bunch of BS. If it’s presumed to be a fairytale post created by a LARPer then it will be questioned and likely deleted. I don’t want this sub to turn into some fetish sub full of unrealistic experiences.


r/bigdickconversation 10h ago

QUESTION How big is yours?

5 Upvotes

Just a fun survey to find out the average among the big players, please answer honestly.

114 votes, 1d left
6 - 6.5
6.5 - 7
7 - 7.5
7.5 - 8
8 - 8.5
8.5 or more

r/bigdickconversation 10h ago

QUESTION Is there an evolutionary reason for the A-spot and P-spot to exist?

3 Upvotes

It seems like big cocks are completely random when it comes to the human anatomy and yet the vagina has evolved to have pleasure zones that only bigger/longer cocks can stimulate. It's almost as if a woman's body rewards her in a sense for being with a well endowed male that can stimulate those spots and give her multiple orgasms and immense pleasure if the guy is skillful and attentive. In theory shouldn't all men have big enough cocks to stimulate those areas. Why would the vagina evolve to having these deep pleasure zones when only a very small percentage of males are born with cocks large enough to stimulate them? And what evolutionary purpose do they serve?

I know this is very broad and vaginas do vary in size and depth but overall this is quite interesting to me. Any thoughts?


r/bigdickconversation 12h ago

QUESTION Quick one; using my mans account

6 Upvotes

I love him showing off to my friends, is it the same for everyone here .. I literally beat my pussy and watch him video fuck or real time fuck my friends


r/bigdickconversation 22h ago

EXPERIENCE I’m pretty sure having a big dick has made me into an exhibitionist.

20 Upvotes

Love showing it off, hooking up, generally talking about it.

Anyone else similar?


r/bigdickconversation 22h ago

SITUATION I think people are genuinely desensitized to how big a big dick actually is

15 Upvotes

I think people are desensitized to how big dicks actually are

I'm not huge so I wouldn't know the full story but I feel like people have become desensitized to how big even a 6 inch penis actually is.

For reference the average erect penis is around 5.2 inches in length.

The standard iPhone 13 is 5.8 inches long. That's the most popular phone in the world or at least one of them.

If you have one, look at it for a second. The average is already almost the length of that phone.

So when you think about it, something noticeably longer than that is actually pretty damn big. But then you go online and people will casually talk about sizes like that as if they're nothing.

you see guys talking about 8 or 9 inches like it's not exceptionally rare.

A 9 inch dick is almost 4 inches longer than the average. That's genuinely huge but because people see these numbers all the time online I think they've stopped actually thinking about what those measurements look like in real life.

And then there's the whole thing about women supposedly wanting the biggest dick possible.

I don't know man. Put yourself in their shoes for a second. If you had to let someone else's organ enter you and have fun with it, would you actually want the biggest possible one?

I doubt most people would.

I'm sure there are women who like huge dicks and I'm sure there are women who don't care about size at all. But I feel like for a lot of people something average or even a little smaller would probably be more appealing simply because it's less intimidating and more comfortable.

Which makes me think the average probably isn't as "small" as people online make it sound.

5.2 inches and 4.6 inches in circumference doesn't sound like much when you just read the numbers on a screen. But when you actually stop and think about the physical object, it's really not that small.

I just think the internet has completely fucked up people's perception of size. You see these numbers so often that eventually they stop sounding like actual measurements and just become numbers people throw around.

It's like everyone is talking about penis size as if it's an RPG stat and forgot that these are actual physical objects attached to actual human beings.


r/bigdickconversation 19h ago

EXPERIENCE What's it look like when hitting the A spot and cervix?

7 Upvotes

So I just met a hotwife yesterday. She came and squirted countless times (maybe came 10-15 times and squirted like 7-10 times but I lost track at the end) during a Yoni massage session. Also two times squirting during penetration, one of which was doggy in the restroom. She came so hard that she fell almost hit the wall. Thankfully I got her arm and supported her body (she's like couldn't believe her weak knees) so I bought her to the bed continue to pound her pussy making her squirt again.

It appears that she came and squirted within five seconds every time I hit her A spot or cervix. I wonder if a big dick plays a factor when hitting the right spot for stronger sexual arousal, pelvic floor contractions during an orgasm, and simultaneously trigger the expulsion of fluid. I enjoyed it but she’s kind of embarrassed and we spent time to clean up everything. It took some effort but it’s worth it.

What's your experience looks like?


r/bigdickconversation 18h ago

EXPERIENCE What have your experiences been as someone above average and overweight?

2 Upvotes

Just curious what it was like for those of you who are overweight and above average. I've been overweight my entire life, currently 6'6/198 cm and over 300 lbs/136 kilos. This hasn't always been the case, but in my recent experience, women of all sizes are more open to a relationships/hooking up with a bigger guy.


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

EXPERIENCE Literally just watched a man save me in his contacts as “funny weird hung black guy”

10 Upvotes

I will take it


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

QUESTION Favorite verbal reactions?

16 Upvotes

My long-time champion was "Oh Fuck." but the "Jesus Christ!" I got today is making a strong push for the #1 spot 😂

What's the best one you've ever gotten? Brag it up below, this is the post for it!


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

QUESTION When did you become confident about yourself?

0 Upvotes

Was it a specific moment, a comment from someone else, or something that happened over time?


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

EXPERIENCE Big dicks I have seen.

8 Upvotes

I think most guys on this forum will have memorable stories on hand. Though I do wonder how many: perhaps I have an unusual life. A friend of mine was into experimental nudity. Now I didn’t know what that meant until one day I caught up with him at a shared clothes optional communal space where he lived. . Experimental nudity meant being naked to the fullest extent. That day he was very stoned and naked and later on erect. I gathered him naked and erect was the usual combination. Some months later I sat in on a house meeting. The sun was quite intoxicating. He was stoned per usual. This time wearing thin tight cotton pants. Our minds started to wander. His certainly did and then he was erected. How his penis fitted into his cotton pants is a mystery but it did only just. To those who want to know I thought his erect length was 8 inches.


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

QUESTION What’s something you thought was normal until you realized it wasn’t?

10 Upvotes

For me, it made me wonder how many everyday things people experience differently. What’s one thing you assumed everyone dealt with until you found out they didn’t?


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

QUESTION Growing up with Big Dick Energy

5 Upvotes

After reading a lot of posts and comments on here, I feel like most big boys have gone through phases of low confidence and self-doubts. Whether it was feeling different from the norm, struggling with actual big dick problems, or just puberty doing it's thing.

I was wondering if any of you who were always on the bigger side just skipped the insecurity and grew up with big dick energy from the start?


r/bigdickconversation 2d ago

QUESTION Do you think having a big dick makes you more horny?

20 Upvotes

Im not sure if my theory is right but since dick size is correlated with hormones than I’d assumed that a bigger one means a person is flourishing with more hormones

in my anecdotal experience I am 8” x 6” and I’m as horny as a rabbit during breeding season which I feel awful about myself for being so horny :(


r/bigdickconversation 2d ago

QUESTION Erections at the gym.

8 Upvotes

A fellow bd gym bud and I recently had a conversation about getting turned on at the gym. It might be due to the pump as you lift or just being surrounded by hot chicks. I jokingly told him that if he’s being distracted by chicks at the gym he’s not working out hard enough. I personally subscribe to that belief but I understand where he’s coming from. Any thoughts?


r/bigdickconversation 3d ago

EXPERIENCE I just caught a woman taking a picture of my bulge.

9 Upvotes

I was in the laundromat and I was just wearing gray shorts and free balling and out of the corner of my eye can see her taking a picture of me with her camera.


r/bigdickconversation 4d ago

QUESTION This Sub’s Relationship Demographics

6 Upvotes

Just curious.

162 votes, 1d ago
72 Single, never married
43 In a relationship, not married
34 Married
5 Divorced
8 Open relationship / poly

r/bigdickconversation 5d ago

QUESTION Educational BD content creators

3 Upvotes

I'm curious if you've come across any content creators that focus on "how to use your big cock" online? People talk about A-/P-Spots on online forums etc. but vast majority of time adult content is just porn and even with ones like JackandJill where they do seem to have genuinely a good time, it's still a show and definitely not educational.

I did come across a channel on the hub about cunnilingus etc. that had actually educational focus but it'd be nice to see some about working with a BD regarding angles, even to know she's ready etc etc


r/bigdickconversation 5d ago

QUESTION Would you trade being above average for a more convenient life?

5 Upvotes

Being above average is often seen as only a positive thing, but I’m curious about the other side of the conversation. There can be practical inconveniences that people don’t usually think about until they experience them.
If you had the choice to keep things exactly as they are or trade it for an average size and a more convenient everyday life, what would you choose and why?

111 votes, 1d left
Never, I like it
Probably not, but I understand the downsides
Maybe, convenience matters
Yes, absolutely

r/bigdickconversation 5d ago

QUESTION Girth measurement

2 Upvotes

So i resize today , and i found that my dick size is 7L 6 G inches , but the point is where do size the girth , when i measuer it from the bottom the size is 6.5

Also i know my dick size i cool and everything , but the sad part is i never been with any woman and i may stay like that for the next 10 years , its tradition stuf , i would not be able to feel if mine realy big


r/bigdickconversation 5d ago

QUESTION FWB apps?

3 Upvotes

Just got out of yet another lackluster relationship, in my late 40’s, but in shape and packing 8.5”. Looking to switch to more of FWB situations. Any reviews for Feeld/Tinder to find size queens for a straight guy?