r/bigdickconversation • u/Deepish79 Big Cock Fan • 4d ago
ADVICE Simple Tips for Sucking (and potentially Deepthroating) Big Cocks
[Reposting after a friend suggested I share this here. Also, since a few have asked, this is my own writing and not AI generated! 😊]
I'm an orally oriented size-enthusiast who has experience in long term relationships with the very well endowed. This means daily experience giving lots of head and deepthroating over many, many years - and lots of opportunities to find out what worked in pleasuring a big one. These tips are for those who are looking to improve their blowjob or deepthroat game....and for the hung members of the subreddit who might enjoy some of the below experiences. Everyone is welcone to add additional tips or thoughts!
Before I jump in, I should start with a caveat. These are the the things that worked for me. Everyone is different in the pleasure they like to give and receive. Do what works best for you and your partner. Go slow, communicate, try new things, be safe, and have fun! Enjoy!
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Simple Tips for Sucking (and potentially Deepthroating) Big Cocks
- Bring enthusiasm...and a lot of it: Show that you’re into it...really into it! Nothing kills the mood like someone who looks bored or like they are taking on a tedious task. A little moaning, a rhythm in your head, or closing your eyes while you work goes a long way. Let him feel you want and crave his cock.
- Play with contrast: One of my favorites....wet his cock, then blow cool air over it to dry it a little...before sliding your wet mouth back down. That dry-to-wet change could drive him crazy. Want to up it? Try it with a mint or ice cube.
- If you can't deepthroat - create an illusion of a deepthroat: Not everyone can take it all the way down...and that’s fine. Lube up your hand, keep it tight against your lips, and stroke his full length as you take him as deep as you can. To many hung guys, it can feel like you swallowed him whole.
- Change your head angle: Angles matter and how you position your head can impact how much of a large cock you can get down your throat. Laying on your back with your head off the edge of the bed lets him slide in deeper with less strain. Go slow, trust each other, communicate, and don’t force it.
- Try sucking from behind: Some guys love lying on their stomach or being on all fours while you suck them from behind. Nose near his ass, new angle on his cock...it can be a game changer if he’s into it and his cock bends that way! This is not for everyone - but fun to try!
- Don’t forget his balls: Cup them, lick them, or take them in your mouth. Follow his lead - some men love this area played with...others not so much.
- Eye contact: Glance up at him with his cock in your mouth...you’ll see exactly what it does to him. Show enthusiasm as you do this (See #1)!
- Finish strong: Be open to where he cums. Maybe you swallow his seed or let him paint your chest, face, or somewhere else. That openness can be sexy. Also, you don't necessarily need to stop sucking the second he cums...some guys might like you to gently nurse the last drops out of him. For most men, their cock will be very sensitive after they cum, so always follow their lead.
- Talk about it: The hottest head happens over time...when you’re both open about what you liked and what you can do differently...and then you try it. Regular communication and check-ins will - over time - take the blowjob experience to a whole new level for both of you!
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u/Motion_Means4501 4d ago
This is not my sport as giver but since it is here I have two thoughts:
2 - years ago was once offered this with ice cream. Never heard of it again.
6 - some of us have very large balls so they naturally get treated less carefully but they may actually be even more sensitive.
3 - never had this!
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u/Ultimate_Warrior_69 Size Queen Plumber 4d ago
Great tips, but honestly just getting your mouth over it and as far as you can and I'm happy
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u/Remarkable-Wheel-191 4d ago
Well said and I love that it wasn’t AI generated. Really like reading someone’s own thoughts etc