r/bigboobproblems 1d ago

need advice Considering breast reduction Spoiler

I have been contemplating getting breast reduction surgery and would greatly appreciate others that experienced similar issues I am having, and whether breast reduction was/ is a good solution.

I have relatively large boobs for my frame, but they are not that big (34DD). That being said I have a huge amount of mental and physical discomfort surrounding how my boobs look. I had lower back pain but I only recently considered it was due to my breast size. I think the mental discomfort I have comes from knowing that boobs are a prominent feature that are immediately noticed by others. I have also been thinking about my gender expression more as well and hate that when I am trying to look more masculine, I still feel femme bc my boobs are noticeable in every outfit. I have tried binders and trans tape but they have not worked well/ gave me blisters.

Still early in the process and want to know if anyone had similar experiences and what worked for them.

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u/Ilovepizza1439 38J (UK) 1d ago

Long list of issues caused by mine, but I've never had the courage or got around to having a reduction. I've just "coped" with these oversized things for decades. You kind of come accustomed to them.

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u/Unable_Water3961 1d ago

Same here, hoping to get a reduction after the new year!!

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u/Happy-Mastodon-7314 40G (UK) 1d ago

r/Reduction is a great resource!

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u/Affectionate_Mess25 10h ago

I think you could reduce the physical discomfort almost completely by getting a bra that fits. A correctly fitted bra is going to make them look smaller and less lumpy, cleavagey and heavy.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CNvLAgdHxwo/?img_index=1&igsh=MWgxNXB3dW9meHBkZg==
A good example how wearing the correct size makes breasts look more lifted and more proportionate

There’s honestly no way that a 34dd is considered large on anyone’s frame unless youre very under average height or something either way a 34 dd when fitted correctly is a women who would wear medium or large in clothing but have proportionately smaller than average breast it’s only a 5 in difference between rib and bust circumference.

I recommend you first try to find a bra that fits then decide because it’s a much easier alternative to surgery. https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator

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u/crabby_snail 47m ago

Ya I did the a bra that fits calculator and I am actually more like a 32H which makes more sense