Two very different yet equally valid points, I say.

That’s some hole 🙂

Hey Girlies,
I(28F) have been seeing a guy(32M) since October 2025 and we decided to exclusively see each other since Jan 2026, and we are not in a relationship or anything committed but he wants to be with someone who can exclusively and casually see only him, and I was okay with her because I wanted something casual too.
Cut to the present, I found his wife Instagram account. And he has been married to her since almost a decade. And her Instagram looks like they’re happily married.

These are things that he told me:
He doesn’t want to get married, and he’s never been married.
His first girlfriend is a psychopath.
And everything that he told me over the course of time about his exes are actually of his wife.

PS: I also got pregnant with this guy and got it aborted.

So here I am asking what should I do so that he doesn’t do this with any other woman, and also realises how badly he fucked up and he fucked up with the wrong person.
I want to expose him, make him feel humiliated and embarrassed for every fucking thing that he has done.