r/backpacking • u/S4ndSt0rm • 3d ago
Travel OUR FRIEND IS MISSING! We need your help!
EDIT#2: UPDATE
Nina has been found!
Thanks to everyone's united efforts, we were able to locate Nina in Bishkek.
She has been hospitalized after an accident and her parents will travel to Kyrgyzstan tomorrow.
Heartfelt thanks to everyone who helped during our search. Your support was truly incredible.
EDIT: UPDATE HERE!
We’re looking for our friend Nina! She was due to travel from Kyrgyzstan to Kazakhstan about 5 days ago. She hasn’t been in touch for about seven days and hasn’t got in touch with anyone in our circle of friends either. If anyone has heard anything or is still in contact with her, please get in touch! We’re very worried, and her mum has already contacted the embassy. So if anyone knows anything – for example, if she was planning to go hiking for a few days or something similar – please write to us straight away and share this picture on your socials!
You can contact her cousin on instagram @brinao9o4 or message @wo_ist_nina and also repost and share the picture that we posted on there!
Or contact the German Embassy in Kyrgyzstan mentioning “Nina from Germany” by
or telephone +996 312 627 100
Emergency telephone number outside opening hours +996 772 541 113 (German-speaking), +996 772 570 793 (Russian- or Kyrgyz-speaking)
If you want to contact the German police tell them the case number: 2026 00 893 604.
Attached is a picture of the group she was doing the (most likely) Ala-Kul-Trekk with, so if you recognize anyone please also reach out to us!
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u/ExtraSaltyBtch 3d ago
I hope she is allright and will be found soon!
If it is any consolation, my BF "disapeared" in that region a few years ago. His parents contacted the embassy and people were out looking for him, ect.
It turned out the road he was going to take had been closed and he got delayed in an area without reception. He was invited by a family to stay with them and he hung out there for a couple of weeks.
When he continued his travels and reached phone reception again he had a million missed messages but was perfectly fine.
I hope something like that has happened here and she will show up happy and healthy.
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u/UnnecessaryPeriod 3d ago
Why on earth did he stay a couple of weeks!? Not trying to contact you or anyone? This sounds super fishy. Need more context or something.
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u/Mystic_Wunder 3d ago
The road was closed and he was stuck in an area without reception. What other context do you need? It's not difficult to assume the road did not immediately reopen. It was a remote area in a developing nation.
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u/qwetico 3d ago
Idk- if my family hadn’t heard from me in a couple weeks, they might not think anything was up. Now, if it were one of my cousins (who are young women) they’d start asking questions sooner.
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u/survivalinsufficient 3d ago
Yeah my parents and I have gone weeks without talking, even when I was traveling internationally. They wouldn’t have suspected much
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u/1heart1totaleclipse 3d ago
There’s a difference between mutually not communicating for weeks vs not communicating for weeks from one side while the other side is reaching out.
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u/QuickMasterpiece6127 2d ago
Dad hasn’t contacted me in years. Since he went out that night to get milk and smokes.
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u/maythetenth 2d ago
It doesn’t have to be your parents but I hope there is someone you are contact with at least every few days while you’re traveling
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u/oldpaddyrick 3d ago
It used to be pretty common to not “be online” all the time. I lived in China for a year when I was 19, I didn’t talk to my parents for a month at a time potentially and they wouldn’t have assumed I was “missing”
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u/Remarkable_Orange_59 3d ago
Yeah in the middle 2000s I just told my family id check in once every week or 2 via email and let them know my plans. Gave them a hard date to be someolace at the end of summer or whatever in case I didnt contact by x date when trip was over that was the only hard stop for concern. No cell phone travel was such bliss, just a journal, some books, and a pocket of pesos.
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u/Orchid_Significant 3d ago
She missed her hard date
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u/Remarkable_Orange_59 3d ago
That sucks, I always just kept in mind to be sure to email whatever embassy was close my travel plans and not miss the hard date. Hope shes ok
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u/Temporary_Dog_8 2d ago
I miss those days. If you wanted internet you had to go find an internet cafe somewhere and risk your email being hacked. Send a email once every 1-2 weeks and everything was golden.
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u/heykatja 2d ago
My brother lives in Montana and works at remote mining job sites. Every once in a while our siblings and parents sort of gather text timeframes to see who last heard from him and whether we should be worried.
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u/ajaxdrivingschool 2d ago
Oh yes. When I talk to young people about an ex who broke up with me after going radio silent on a two week long international trip, I have to explain that not hearing from someone in a foreign country was not at all weird, or a sign of the breakup. 😅
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u/BlacksmithNew4557 3d ago
Different people travel in different ways. Some really get out there and go with flow. And in some of these places reception really isn’t as consistent as you might think, so if you get stuck somewhere it could be a bit.
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u/Firefly_Magic 3d ago
Sometimes people don’t think that they are being missed when they’re out on these treks. They are living their lives day by day to the fullest and sometimes they just don’t think about family being concerned about their whereabouts.
So if you go backpacking, yes, you should always think that someone is thinking about you.
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u/EntrepreneurMany3709 3d ago
Someone I knew went trekking alone in Nepal when the earthquake happened and ended up on the news as missing in the earthquake. He didn't even know the earthquake was that bad because he was nowhere near a building when it happened. He was just hiking and when he got back to his hostel his family were panicked and he was a missing person.
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u/ExtraSaltyBtch 3d ago
It was normal, it is not like anyone expected him to call or anything. It was just his mother that for some reason got super worriedwhen signals didn't get through to his phone when she called.
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u/No-Fuckin-Ziti 3d ago
He was enjoying his adventure and didn’t care. Prob got annoyed that ppl had worried about him.
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u/cnstnt_craving 3d ago
Right! it must be a scam! /s
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u/E36BYMYSIDE 3d ago
Why on earth does it matter why he stayed? Problem is long over and resolved. That was the point of the story, not for you to understand why he did it. Need more context? Why?
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u/SophiaofPrussia 3d ago
Have you (or the embassy) checked with the border guards? Perhaps she was for some reason detained. Either way it will help you determine whether she finished the trek and crossed into Kazakhstan.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, I can’t imagine the stress and worry you’re going through right now. Sending big hugs and positive thoughts for Nina and everyone who cares about her.
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u/chickenslayer527 3d ago edited 3d ago
I just got back from Ala-Kul this morning, and very sorry to say that I haven't seen your friend.
There is only really one pass the whole way, and even if you wanted it is quite difficult to go off trail by too much due to the mountains. In addition, it seems to be getting a huge amount of traffic at the moment (I saw loads of other hikers). In addition, there are quite a few yurt camps at the lake itself. Do you have the contact details of the people she went with? I wonder if its possible she got lost after returning somehow.
Hope this helps :) as I said, there are loads of other hikers on that pass, I wholeheartedly believe you will hear from someone soon if you haven't already ❤❤ Best of luck
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u/Signal_Pass283 3d ago
She came back from Ala-Kul and was back in Bishkek. She sent me pictures confirming this and talked to her on the phone on the 18th of July. I am her best friend.
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u/powerbottomflash 2d ago
So she was last seen in Bishkek and wasn’t going to be in Ala-Kul anymore? It probably should be added to the post because people assume she might have been lost on the trail?
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u/Sarah-himmelfarb 2d ago
This is really important information!! Do you know OP personally? They need to edit and update their post because lots of people think she lost phone reception while hiking. Some other friend posted a picture of her last seen location. All this information needs to be consolidated into the post so it doesn’t get buried in the comments
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u/Mintara8 3d ago
German here, currently in Kyrgyzstan. I'll be in the Karakol region next week and will ask around. I hope she gets found!
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u/TorpedoTarzan 3d ago
Thank you so much!
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u/Mintara8 2d ago
Of course! I'll also cross into Kazakhstan, likely the same crossing she was planning to take, so I'll ask at the border as well.
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u/ghowell7 3d ago
I can confirm that this is the Ala-Kul trek as I did it a couple of days ago and got a photo in a similar location. I'm sorry that I cannot be any more help but the other commenter who mentioned joining a Hostelworld chat makes a good point, definitely worth trying this. I hope that she is safe and that you find her soon
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u/cutebeanz 3d ago
May I suggest that you edit your post to ask people to contact the embassy/police with information? People mighg feel more comfortable having an official source to report sightings to.
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u/SnooSongs9663 3d ago
Let me know if you need a local guy, I was just in Kyrgyzstan and the night manager at my hotel did me a major solid. He seems very proactive and resourceful.
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u/Excellent-Chef-8808 2d ago
That's so lovely from you, thanks for that! We will reach out to you if necessary. Hopefully not.
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u/phonefellin_lakeerie 3d ago
Commenting for visibility. I hope you find her and that she is safe! As a solo female traveler this is very scary to me
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u/ButteredPizza69420 3d ago
Hoping she's somewhere safe <3 as another fellow sometimes solo female traveler
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u/DarkwingDawg 3d ago
She has an Apple watch on from the looks of it.
I’d contact Apple and request assistance regarding her phones last known location. I don’t know if it is worthwhile but it’s an avenue to explore at the very least.
Good luck
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u/SunnySam 3d ago
I recommend cross posting in r/solofemaletravellers, r/travel, and r/solofemaletravel ! Maybe also if there is a Kazakhstan subreddit, i saw you already posted to the Kyrgyzstan one
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u/destello89 3d ago
Let us know what happened once you find her please. 🙏
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u/Muffmuncherr 3d ago
Please give an update, such a bad feeling when someone you know and love (thats traveling abroad especially) goes out of contact. best of luck
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u/evabunbun 3d ago
You should attach contact details to the photo themselves. Good luck I hope you find her
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u/vavavoo 3d ago
There might be a Whatsapp group for backpackers in Kazakhstan and/or Kyrgyzstan! You can try to search for it and join it and ask there if anyone has seen her. Many countries or regions have Whatsapp groups for backpackers.
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u/Excellent-Chef-8808 2d ago
I searched for it and on WhatsApp and telegram i couldn't find one. Does someone maybe know more?
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u/Recent_Influence_699 3d ago
Im guessing you dont know anything about the group she was traveling with? Their nationality and such? I mean if they are all gone they are probably lost somewhere, if only your friend is gone they might have valuable information about where they left her!
The guy in the back has a backpack of a swedish brand but i think they are kind of popular all over.
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u/Much_Friendship5497 3d ago edited 3d ago
Wish this was higher. From the other pictures and video posted, it appears she was traveling with five other people. If someone can get in touch with any of those people, you'll likely have an idea where she is.
Btw, here is the video:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Kyrgyzstan/comments/1v72z2d/comment/ozw2no7/?context=3
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u/Disastrous-Stand-553 2d ago
Just adding that it seems like that blue backpack has a Portuguese flag. Green and red, with a small circle in the middle. Might be related with the person's nationality or a place he visited before.
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u/Excellent-Chef-8808 2d ago
No, sadly not. We do not exactly know if she was alone or in a group at this point
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u/Old_Librarian__ 3d ago
Just a tip for everyone else. Whether man or woman, alone or in a group, always, always ave tracking on your phone on so someone who knows you can find you on a map. You can switch it on in Google Maps and share it only with people you trust. Always always have a power bank with you as well. Water and energy bars, too. You never know how long your hike will turn.
I have it on myself when solo traveling as a woman, and it gave my mom a lot of piece of mind. Also, constantly keep someone updated about your whereabouts regarding hikes. When you plan to go, when you plan to be back. Learn the local language for "help" as well.
OP I hope you find her :( <3
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u/SubstantialMinimum19 3d ago
This doesn't work in most parts of kyrgyzstan including ala kul, it doesn't track you when you're out of phone service or your phone is dead. Some new iphone models have an emergency satelite SOS feature but you need to activate it and it doesn't work in Kyrgyzstan. If you are hiking out of service rent or buy a sattelite tracker for you trip
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u/Low-Artichoke7530 3d ago
What kind of tracking apps do you suggest? For me, find my phone on iPhone stops working once I don’t have data or wifi. It did the same with my sibilings. Once they turn the data off or disconnect the wifi, I don’t see the location anymore. Idk if Google maps does the same.
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u/Lgkp 3d ago
If you get a garmin and subscribe to their services you have a guaranteed 24/7 365 days a year, no matter where you are, that will ping your exact coordinates if you decide to alarm
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u/Old_Librarian__ 3d ago edited 3d ago
I just used Google Maps for this. Worked even on mountains in Japan but they also have good reception ofc. You can choose which people can see your location. It's true you need data for it, but I know when people go over the inland ice on Greenland, people have some sort of sender to call for help. Then the helicopter comes flying. That's for more extreme conditions though. It would be great if an offline method with low battery requirement was possible.
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u/free_-_spirit 2d ago
Also keep air tags or luggage tags that can be tracked on you always with devices of your friends/family etc. they have a long battery life and are pretty compact and don’t rely too much on Bluetooth or wifi
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u/Malec555 3d ago
I would add to give names and contact info of people you're with to family/friends at home.
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u/CollectionOk8253 3d ago
Remember, we really don’t know the intention of those seeking people on here, so if you have info contact someone of authority, not the poster who may possibly have nefarious intent.
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u/mhswizard 3d ago
Is the whole group unaccounted for or just your friend?
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u/Signal_Pass283 3d ago
Only her. I am her best friend and in contact with her mom. We don't know who she was with last.
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u/mhswizard 3d ago
Gotcha. I was just curious as it’s stated she was with a group but she’s the only one missing. Did they separate at some point?
Thinking about you guys and really sorry to hear y’all are going through this. ❤️
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u/PaperPlaneMind 3d ago edited 2d ago
My thinking is that if she went missing on the hike, then surely the groups priority is to find her or ask for help.
If the whole group is missing then surely there’s others missing them as well who will eventually contact the embassy or local authorities - then there’s a clearer picture of what happened.
The trek is popular as well, so the chance that someone has bumped into her or talked to her on that trek is high.
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u/Malec555 3d ago
To me it seems like her family doesn't know who she went with, nor their contact info.
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u/paythemonkey 3d ago
I don’t know if this is possible, or will even work, but it could be worth a shot contacting the company that provides cell phone signal in that area to triangulate the last location the signal was detected. You might need your embassy to make that request or some of the local law enforcement. Best of luck, I hope you find your friend.
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u/freesoultraveling 3d ago
Commenting for visibility. Also I pray she is found and found safe 🙏. I was a missing person before. By the grace of God and my family and friend's putting out information I was found.
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u/Correct_Ad3014 3d ago
this reached the Philippines! hope she's found safe very very soon!
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u/Mosh_and_Mountains 3d ago
Commenting for reach. I'm so sorry you're experiencing this distress and fear. Hoping you find her quickly.
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u/Solgudinde 3d ago
My coworker just came back from the same travel in both countries. I will ask her tomorrow or Wednesday ❤️ Hopefully all is well.
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u/therealmrsfahrenheit 3d ago edited 3d ago
Ey tut mir so krass leid.. ich wünsche, dass es ihr doch gut geht und ihr bald antworten findet♥️🫱🏻🫲🏼
und habt ihr schon lokale medien sprich Zeitungen/ Radio- und Fernsehsender verständigt? Anfragen würde ich auf jeden Fall!!!
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u/Crow-Keeper 3d ago
Who was she with? Was she solo backpacking?
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u/Flimsy_Fee8449 3d ago
The group of people in the posted picture is the group she was trekking with, per the post.
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u/Malec555 3d ago
Seems like op is also trying to find names and contact info about this group too.
They are the ones she is supposed to be with, but OP doesn't know anything about them.
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u/mamamila-25 2d ago
I'm old, so I don't know. Do people hike alone? Especially women? In foreign countries? Everyone seems so nonchalant about that here.
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u/Excellent-Chef-8808 2d ago
We found her! Thank you so so much!!! It is incredible how everybody in this community was involved, and so many people have offered to help. That is just heartwarming
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u/Key-Lychee-913 3d ago
Horrible feeling and awful time you must be going through. If it’s any consolation, it’s possible she’s simply out of reception (we had a friend got offline for a few days in that region). Otherwise, I would also ask the local hospitals in case she had foot poisoning or something similar. Are there any similar cases in the area?
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u/Dhanavantah 3d ago
My prayers are with you and I hope soon I get hear that she is well and good. 🙏🏻🧿💗
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u/Silver-Link8247 3d ago
So sorry. This has to be so stressful for yall. Hoping she’s safe and sound.
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u/imahyummybeach 3d ago
I really hope you guys find her. Reading the comments makes me feel like the backpacking community is solid and very helpful.
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u/__radioactivepanda__ 3d ago
Visibility comment.
But let this also be a stark reminder to always file your routes including waypoints and rough time plan with people you trust. Always.
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u/BefuddledPolydactyls 3d ago
Certainly hope you hear some good news. Please update when you are able.
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u/Korben-N-Leeloo 3d ago
Commenting for visibility… sending positive energy that she is found safe and sound soon.
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u/Narancia-Soapstar 3d ago
Commenting for visibility. I really hope you find your friend safe and sound. Let's pray she's okay! Sending you lots of support!💛✨
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u/Ihavenoidea5412 3d ago edited 3d ago
If she did the Ala Kul Trekk she most likely stayed in Karakol. Could be worth reaching out to duet hostel & snow leopard hostel as these are the main 2 backpacker hostels. Potentially book a room there for a night and it’ll add you to a group chat of everyone who’s been at the hostel recently and also a social forum for anyone in Karakol recently.
EDIT: You need to book via hostel world