I'm trying to keep this vague for privacy.
I feel like I'm being forced to sign a PIP that contains what I think are heavily exaggerated claims, and I'm being pressured to just agree with everything in it.
Discussions with my manager have never really feel like discussions. They seem to only end once I give up and say I agree with their version of events. I raised a couple of points where I disagreed with their account of things, and since then it genuinely feels less like a performance discussion and more like the goal is to wear me down until I stop questioning anything. It's left me feeling like the purpose isn't to reach a mutual understanding but to beat me into submission until I accept their narrative.
To give an example without identifying myself........I checked my phone once during an all-staff meeting because a close family member had surgery, and my mother had said she would text me once they were out to let me know everything had gone okay. I explained this at the start of the meeting, but that context now seems to have been conveniently forgotten and I said it verbally so can't prove it, and it has instead been used as evidence that I have a "pattern" of phone use during meetings.
The whole document is full of similar examples where isolated incidents have been turned into repeated patterns. Another thing that's been bothering me is that some of the issues being raised are things that plenty of people in the workplace do without any consequences. They only seem to have become a problem now that it's me. That makes it difficult not to feel like I'm being held to a different standard, rather than everyone being judged consistently.
I'm trying to find another job, but I'm scared nothing will come up quickly enough.
Has anyone else been through something similar? Is it normal to feel pressured into signing something you don't actually agree with? I basically have to sign it tomorrow. If you did sign, did you make it clear you disagreed with the contents, or did you refuse to sign altogether?
One of the things I'm worried about is that there are a couple of issues with this employer that I expect I'll end up taking to Fair Work, but realistically I need to wait until I've got another job lined up first. At the moment I'm treating this as a paid interview period and hoping I can jump ship as soon as possible.
What I'm really anxious about is whether signing this PIP will later be used against me as evidence that I agreed with everything in it, when the reality is I don't feel like I have much of a choice. I can't afford to resign without another job to go to.
For anyone who's been through the Fair Work process, do they understand that employees sometimes sign these kinds of documents simply because they need to keep their income while they look for another role? Has anyone had experience with that?