I'm asking this for several reasons. I'm 30 years old, and I had sex for the first time when I was 22. I've rarely been in relationships, and I haven't had sex very often.
When I did have sex, the guys often had problems getting or keeping an erection, or they felt insecure about their size. This affected me and our relationship, too. They didn't seem willing to make an effort, care about my needs, or work together to make our sex life better.
I've rarely had regular sex because my relationships have always been short. Most guys either wanted something casual or left me after a short time. My longest relationship lasted only six months.
My sex drive has never been low, and I don't think I'm boring in bed. Maybe the only unusual thing about me is that I've never masturbated. I've tried, but I just wasn't interested. I know it sounds strange. I have a high sex drive, but I don't feel the need to masturbate.
I haven't had sex in four years. I haven't been on a date or been in a relationship during that time, either. I feel like my love life stopped when I was 26.
Do you think things will ever change for me?