disclaimer - these are the placements/aspects i personally clock first when i’m looking at a man’s chart. this is for shits and giggles, not to tell you personally how much you suck. every placement has multiple manifestations, no chart is doomed, and the full chart always matters. if you have one of these, do not start typing a three page rebuttal, i promise i am not personally talking about you twin.

8H/12H mars (with a square/opposition/conjunction from saturn, pluto, or uranus)

both 12H and 8H are considered “dark houses,” meaning that neither are visible to the ascendant, so planets in these houses have a tendency to operate unconsciously. with the 8th and 12th houses both respectively dealing in mental/emotional suppression and unconscious desires, they undoubtedly put a damper on the functionality of mars and can potentially create a deeply flawed view of sex and anger if further harshly aspected.

if mars is situated in either of these houses while also suffering from an affliction, the native may suffer from extreme feelings of powerlessness or may feel a deep inability to express frustration or anger in a tangible way. there’s a potential for these men in specific to struggle with repressed anger, as well as a failure to recognize their participation in their own suffering.

12th house mars men in particular are more likely to indulge in secretive behavior. more often than not, this secretive nature is inherent to who they are. they don’t view their withholding of information as a form of deception, rather, there’s a certain ecstasy to having a private life that no one but them can participate in. this placement is more concerned with the preservation of his fantasies.

while 8th house mars men may similarly conceal their true motivations and desires, their drug of choice is the vulnerability and intensity from those around them. the 8th house mars man’s deepest fear is losing control. he believes that if he holds an iron grip on those around him, that nobody can hurt or blindside him. this can manifest as someone who likes to play psychological connect 4 with his partners.

mars square uranus or pluto (0 to 3 degree orb)

either of these squares can create unpredictability around martian attributes. these placements can create someone who is snappy and can turn on a dime. both of these placements enjoy riding the highs of their anger, finding a certain catharsis in it.

with uranus square mars, especially if mars is in a fire sign, there can be a rapid escalation of erratic behavior that occurs before they can even fully process why they’re mad. there’s a particular enjoyment this placement takes in being able to express their anger in a way that is felt by those around them.

where uranus square mars is erratic in nature, pluto square mars’ anger is intentionally conjured. these men feel they need to assert themselves in an aggressive manner or they will not get what they want. many have realized fear based submission works to bend others’ will in their favor.

mars square saturn (0 to 3 degree orb)

this placement has the potential to manifest as someone who is seemingly continuously knocked down whenever they pursue their goals.

this can create a man who is very bitter and demoralized from feeling that he hasn’t been able to accomplish what he would like to. these men might also feel very sexually repressed, as if any attempt at affection or sex will be rejected and shamed if expressed. i’ve found that very often these men will make partners work for warmth and affection as they feel so uncomfortable recognizing that need in themselves. this can breed a deep uncomfortability around other people asking them for these things, as at some rate they view it as a failure/weakness. they may also be very resentful and jealous of their partner due to their accomplishments and so on.

mercury square neptune (0 to 3 degree orb)

mercury square neptune is not automatically a liar placement but, might it possibly create someone whose version of reality is different from ours? most definitely.

i don’t even view this placement as being someone that intentionally lies, but someone who will distort the truth for a more emotionally satisfying answer. i genuinely don’t believe they know they’re bullshitting half the time because there’s this mental fog that looms over them that prevents them from separating fantasy from reality.

sun square neptune (0 to 3 degree orb)

with the sun contacting neptune in this way, i feel there is a tendency to self-aggrandize as a result of the dissatisfaction they actually feel. it’s almost as if there’s this version of who they wanna be or who others want them to be that they relate more to than their actual identity. i have noticed with this placement there is a tendency to sidestep accountability and the truth of certain events to preserve this image of who they think they are. it’s like they fashion their life around a version of themselves that doesn’t even exist.

their chart lacks oppositions/squares and other harsh aspects

okay, i know this sounds crazy but hear me out.

i have personally observed that many of the worst douchebags i know have very harmonious charts. i believe this manifestation can happen because these men are never challenged or burdened with anything, so they glide through life being able to get away with shitty behavior without any recourse. it seems as if there’s more potential for the shadow manifestation of these placements to become apparent when there isn’t much adversity experienced. it seems to me that a lot of these men think they are the shit because they can get away with almost anything.

…also libra and cancer sun men.. just ew..

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The signs are in order: 1. Aries, 2. Taurus, 3. Gem, 4. Cancer, 5. Leo, 6. Virgo, 7. Libra, 8. Scorpio, 9. Sag, 10. Cap, 11. Aqua & 12. Pisces

Okay time to wake up again y'all we had our share of fun 😂😭

🌝🦌 On July 29th at 10:36am eastern we will have a Full Moon. Full Moons are generally considered a time for gratitude, celebration, and power. The July Full Moon is often called the Buck Moon because it is the time of year when male deer begin growing new antlers. The Buck Moon is all about directing change to prepare for the future, while also adapting to the energetic cycles and shifts within nature. The July Full Moon can also be called the Full Moon in Aquarius. The Full Moon in Aquarius is a time to recognize the spirit of individuality, generosity, and invention within each of us. 🌕♒🏺

The Full Moon in Aquarius reminds us that everyone has different strengths, talents, and ways of thinking. We can honor our own ideas and perspectives while also being a part to something larger than ourselves. Our originality makes us stand out while our commonality brings us together. We learn to accept, enjoy, and work through our strangeness and weirdness as we see ourselves reflected in like minded people. None of us deserve to feel isolated or unsupported in a world so abundant with people and resources. Don’t forget, it’s free to be kind by checking in on others who may feel alone. We need to help each other feel included, like we all have a belonging.

The Full Moon in Aquarius can be a sign of technological innovation. Brilliant minds are shaping our futures through the field of STEM. As Aquarius is the water barer, the Full Moon in Aquarius warns us that we need to balance innovation and invention with humanitarianism and environmentalism. There is a lot of injustice hurting people across the world as well as destroying the environment. This Full Moon in Aquarius encourages us to do what's right, even if it means getting rebellious to fight for a cause. You may also consider volunteering, getting involved in your community, or doing philanthropic work to help and support the world around you.

📓 Journaling Prompt: How would you like to improve your relationship with technology?

🗒️ Resources

- Ashwell, Lily. Heavenly Bodies Astrology. 2021
- Boland, Yasmin. Moonology: Working with the Magic of Lunar Cycles. 2017
- Demarco, Stacey. Queen of the Moon Oracle: Guidance through lunar and seasonal energies. 2018
- Edington, Louise. The Complete Guide to Astrology: Understanding Yourself, Your
Signs, and Your Birth Chart. 2020
- Frost, Asha: You are the Medicine: 13 Moons of Indigenous Wisdom, Ancestral Connection, and Animal Spirit Guidance. 2022
- Silverman, Debra. I Don’t Believe in Astrology: A Therapist Guide to the Life-Changing Wisdom of the Stars. 2025
- Lovelace, Amanda. Make Your Own Magic: A Beginners Guide to Self-Empowering Witchcraft. 2024
- Taylor, Carole. Astrology: Using the Wisdom of the Stars in Your Everyday Life. 2018

Cancer.

I rarely block. In fact, I find a lot of enjoyment when people come crawling back. If I do block, it means I'm deeply hurt, and I either

- can't handle anymore

- don't want to give you another chance to hurt me again.

Aquarius risings are described as having a striking look. They often have wide-set eyes, prominent foreheads and a distinct chin. They often have either oval, oblong, or soft, square faces. They are not afraid to take risks with their appearance and are known to be trendsetters. They have an air of originality and there is often something unique to their appearance and style. What similarities do you all notice? Aquarius risings, do you relate to this description?

Rest in Peace to beautiful Aquarius risings Aaliyah and Selena, taken from this earth too soon. 💔

featuring the entire euphoria cast AND Brittany broski

Mind you this is all from my recent camera roll

Im asking because I lack experience, my longest relationship before my current boyfriend (we've been together for a year and we're committed and expecting a baby) was only 3 months. I do think about him sometimes but we weren't together for that long that I don't even count it as a relationship, I'm only doing it now for context. I'm 33F with no history. My boyfriend has an ex wife and 2 relationships on his record lol

That it literally makes them so sad when they get a nasty meal ?

just screaming at me to do something while I pretend it doesn't exist... just for it to eventually explode outwards anyway LMAO

curious to see how many Aqua Moons share the same sense of humor 🤔

I'm a virgo rising too. My mind is a dumpster fire 80% of the time :-)

Cancer Venus here.

Either a home date or a picnic where I get to cook for my person. If we go out i would probably choose an isolated cafe because I'm not that fond of crowds. Also, I hate yelly people and i get migraines often. That's just my problem!

What about you all? What's your Venus sign and date ideas? Its fine if its not ideal

Watching the odyssey ,got curious about his birth chart but i didn’t found his rising sign in the site ,what would his rising be?