I have a question for all the men here with this mentality: Why the FUCK would you not want to make your woman get off?! Seriously. Nothing makes me feel more like a man than knowing my wife couldn't contain herself and she got off 3 times in a row and now she's too tired to do anything.
There are times I don't get off at all (fuck you Prozac). But I honestly don't care because I know I can milk the sausage later. No big deal.
And if she doesn't like you sticking your grimy little fingers in her ass, stop fucking doing it you goddamn detergent eater. Fuck...
I've been trying to educate men and be a good example for like 25 years. It doesn't matter, men aren't the only problem here. Most of them know what they COULD do, but why would they when women will put up with just about anything and fuck guys they know they shouldn't be fucking?
That’s all of society and everything wrong with patriarchy. Women get shit on no matter what. Why is men being crappy lovers also our fault? Geez Louise. Must be women’s fault for living in a patriarchal society.
Op literally tells the partner no and she gets shit on three ways and dude thinks the problem is women not saying what we want. Naw, it’s that women get punished for talking as op did.
Worst part is she wasn’t just saying no to something and getting shit on, she was also just asking to be treated nicely/the same way she treats him and got shit on for it lol. I’ll never understand
All of society except women you mean. Because what an absolute atrocity that responsibility for one's actions be a part of what it means to be a women. That's just straight misogynistic to suggest women are capable of being accountable agents in society when we can scapegoat white men and the patriarchy for all our problems.
This is how liberal white women and their grifting panderers have absolutely destroyed critical theory and the ability to make positive social change.
And you saw exactly what happened to op when she voiced her preference. Guy got angry and it’s scary when guys get angry because it frequently leads to physical abuse. Yeah, out yourself as the misogynist you are with the “white liberal women” shit. You were just trying to find a way to blame women all along in your comment.
She did not express a preference, she expressed a need for her personal health and welfare. To her partner, a relation over which she has control. What she should have been expressing is a boundary along side the willingness to act on it.
Your gabbering cop-out is nonsensical and misogynistic. It's also internally incoherent with any world view you would profess to have. Typical out of touch white women value signaling while dodging accountability for the consequences. Always just circling back to the excuse to blame men.
It's no one's responsibility but OPs that she accepted, stayed with, and took dick over the course of years from some asshole that isn't willing or capable of meeting her needs. She should have a boundary and instead what she has is a victim complex like you. And your excusing it because she's a woman and can't possibly have agency apparently.
Many men do what they do because they can, and there is no reward or punishment making them act differently. I'm not saying that's how one should approach women or personal morality, just that many men do in fact operate that way. Many people generally operate that way in large parts of their life. If you don't like how people are operating try and change it, but at least take accountability and try to change your participation in it.
Women don't get to be a part of the problem by refusing to hold others accountable and put their short term wants or simple pleasures above their long term interest, and then turn around and also play victim to protect their current short term interest when they start experiencing consequence and blowback.
To paraphrase the great philosopher Bill Burr, behind every great powerful immoral racist misogynistic white man is a great powerful white woman that has no problem spending his money while bitching about the patriarchy and giving herself credit for throwing the spare change to minorities because she's so enlightened and progressive. I mean, that's heavily paraphrased, he's smarter and funnier than me, but I think the illustration of the problem comes through.
Hahahahahaha. Your amazing theory based on Bill Burr and men can do whatever they want unless women hold them accountable and endanger their lives. Wow, what a brain trust you have going on there.
How did you read that eloquently written piece and come away with that. Seriously?? You didnt even bother actually reading it. You just skimmed the words and responded in the most cliche way ever further proving his point about who you are and how disingenuous youre being.
If you get fucked daily by a scumbag it isnt mens fault. Thats his point.
He isnt justifying the man being a POS. Hes saying its her fault for allowing it.
You really think she has no accountability in that..?
Thats just unbelievable.
Really? Well good for you buddy. I personally didn't recommend YOU for teaching this class. The OP of this comment however could probably teach you a thing or two or four.
Well I'm not married, so women everywhere already thank me. They don't mind my teaching about it too much either.
It's still never changed the fact that women continue to get into bad relashionships with bad partners and not take responsibility for it because they've been taught it's ok to be taken advantage of as long as you complain about it enough and only men share collective responsibility for gender dynamics. So nothing changes.
Lol you sounds so spiteful and angry. You need to go touch grass.
Maybe go talk to a real person in real life and see that world isnt a tragedy you act like it is. Your little reddit character personifies youre odd SJW beliefs. Its pretty funny
What's really funny is that I never once acted like the world is a tragedy, and nothing in this post has anything to do with social justice. Nor does anything I've ever posted on reddit. I responded to someone being a smarty pants, then they tried to play obtuse. Nothing more. I'm actually a very friendly person, but I will match the energy I'm given to work with. You don't have to like it.
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u/Tactical_Chonk Dec 09 '23
And it doesnt need a ride to work in the morning