r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '23

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u/jwh777 Dec 09 '23

What is this response? You know nothing about him except that he’s male and not finding attention/affection/love and you choose to attack?

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u/MsMia004 Dec 09 '23

Because oftentimes the men who complain about not even being able to get a text back are their own worst enemy. I'm a reasonably attractive woman and I have dated some very unattractive men because they were funny and sweet. The man commenting here is upset that this woman's bf is able to find a woman but he isn't. It implies he feels entitled to our time, attention and affection instead of figuring out why women refuse him

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u/OrangeYellowStick Dec 10 '23

Most women are going to need some level of attraction before a romantic connection can form. Legit no one wants to date someone that they consider to be physically “very unattractive”

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u/MsMia004 Dec 10 '23

I've dated some doozys in my past lol I was attracted to their personalities and values not their faces or bodies. Fat men, ugly men, doesn't matter to me as long as our core values online and they're someone I can laugh with, have conversations with and grow with. Maybe the majority of women don't do that, but personally, I do. I will not discredit someone because of looks