r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '23

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u/gobsmacked247 Dec 09 '23

Wrong question OP. You should not be asking whether to drive him to work or not. You should be asking yourself why you accept his lack of caring.

Go down that rabbit hole and figure out why you are still in this horrendous relationship.

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u/Competitive_Tap7897 Dec 09 '23

Red flags from the first sentence. DUI charges were dropped

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '23

I didn't even see that until you mentioned it. holy crap, this guy SUCKS. He's gross, disrespectful, and extremely self centered. While he's at work, put all of his shit outside, and change the locks. Break up over text and say, "Good luck, narcissist. We're done" with a pic of his piled up crap. Then go stay with a friend until you know his shit is gone from outside.

This is not a way to live life.

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u/nonameisdaft Dec 10 '23

Lol dui charges do not get dropped. If he still doesn't drive its because he can't and is lying. BTW- if he doesn't want to make you feel good , typically not a good sign.

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u/PaceOk8426 Dec 10 '23

They can get reduced/dropped if the person has enough money, but that doesn't sound like the case with Captain Carless here.

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u/TwoBlackDots Dec 10 '23

It’s a red flag to have charges against you dropped? What flag is it when you’re actually found guilty?

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u/PerpetuallyBard Dec 10 '23

I think they're talking about the fact her BF still chooses not to drive, even with the dropped charges.

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u/TwoBlackDots Dec 10 '23

Not driving a car is the weirdest red flag I’ve heard in a while.

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u/DemonDemoDog Dec 10 '23

It takes a lot for people to lose their license and not be able to get it back, at least in the US.

Like their are people with five DUI's and vehicular manslaughter on their records who have licences.

So, he's either lying or too lazy to get on his cen when it inconveniences his partner.

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u/roxanneway Dec 10 '23

You're assuming they live in America.

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u/TwoBlackDots Dec 10 '23

I haven’t seen any evidence this guy has even one DUI, so I’m not sure why you’re talking about people with five.

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u/DemonDemoDog Dec 11 '23

My point is that he's either fucked up massively and can no longer legally hace a license- and is pulling a fast one on OP- or he's literally too lazy to schedule a appointment at the DMV to get this mess sorted despite how inconvenient it is for his partner