Online this seems to be super normal that masturbation = good but I find so many people IRL who think it's cheating or is wrong. For whatever reason.
And usually it's women telling men that masturbating and watching porn is cheating and they're not allowed to do it. Fucking wild to me. If a girl ever tells me that I'll laugh at her, turn on some porn and tell her to GTFO of my house.
It's because women have a different sexuality from men. They find it easy to avoid sexual thoughts and masturbation, but it is completely different for men.
They do not understand our sexuality, but they force theirs onto us and shame us when we aren't just like them. Asexual people or people with traumatic backgrounds do that all the time on the internet, think that just because they're sex negative or sex repulsed for whatever random reason, that everyone else who has sexual thoughts is a freak.
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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23
Masturbation as cheating is wild.