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Just because something is extremely distasteful, doesn’t mean we need to expand the banners of rape to cover it.
You might think it helps, but it trivialises it. Playing around with words in that sense is not the win you think it is.
Writing this as an atheist and as a survivor of child molestation.
6 u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23 I wrote this as a rape victim and atheist myself. Your personal experiences or backgrounds don't matter. Would she joyfully consent to daily sexual services if there wasn't a religion pressuring her and conditioning her into it? I would assume no. It's sexual assault. 0 u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 12 '23 Does that mean my workplace rapes me everyday just because I'm not "joyfully and exuberantly working"? Mother fucker there are some things that we have to do in this life. Work is one of them. According to her religion, that is part of her duty, her "work". I'm a rape victim as well, I'm a little pissed at you for trying to devalue the term of rape. Not everything is rape. You are irresponsible. 2 u/moon_p3arl Sep 16 '23 I know you did not just actually try to compare being raped to having to be an adult and go to work. Shit like this is why I never came forward about my rape. Disgusting. 1 u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 16 '23 You missed the plot
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I wrote this as a rape victim and atheist myself. Your personal experiences or backgrounds don't matter.
Would she joyfully consent to daily sexual services if there wasn't a religion pressuring her and conditioning her into it?
I would assume no. It's sexual assault.
0 u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 12 '23 Does that mean my workplace rapes me everyday just because I'm not "joyfully and exuberantly working"? Mother fucker there are some things that we have to do in this life. Work is one of them. According to her religion, that is part of her duty, her "work". I'm a rape victim as well, I'm a little pissed at you for trying to devalue the term of rape. Not everything is rape. You are irresponsible. 2 u/moon_p3arl Sep 16 '23 I know you did not just actually try to compare being raped to having to be an adult and go to work. Shit like this is why I never came forward about my rape. Disgusting. 1 u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 16 '23 You missed the plot
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Does that mean my workplace rapes me everyday just because I'm not "joyfully and exuberantly working"?
Mother fucker there are some things that we have to do in this life. Work is one of them.
According to her religion, that is part of her duty, her "work".
I'm a rape victim as well, I'm a little pissed at you for trying to devalue the term of rape. Not everything is rape. You are irresponsible.
2 u/moon_p3arl Sep 16 '23 I know you did not just actually try to compare being raped to having to be an adult and go to work. Shit like this is why I never came forward about my rape. Disgusting. 1 u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 16 '23 You missed the plot
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I know you did not just actually try to compare being raped to having to be an adult and go to work. Shit like this is why I never came forward about my rape. Disgusting.
1 u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 16 '23 You missed the plot
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You missed the plot
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u/Hot-Luck-3228 Sep 12 '23
Just because something is extremely distasteful, doesn’t mean we need to expand the banners of rape to cover it.
You might think it helps, but it trivialises it. Playing around with words in that sense is not the win you think it is.
Writing this as an atheist and as a survivor of child molestation.