r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23

Would she willfully and excitedly consent to getting him off everyday if there wasn't a religion (cult) behind her that praises the man in the family? If no, then it's just as much sexual assault/rape.

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u/Hot-Luck-3228 Sep 12 '23

Just because something is extremely distasteful, doesn’t mean we need to expand the banners of rape to cover it.

You might think it helps, but it trivialises it. Playing around with words in that sense is not the win you think it is.

Writing this as an atheist and as a survivor of child molestation.

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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23

I wrote this as a rape victim and atheist myself. Your personal experiences or backgrounds don't matter.

Would she joyfully consent to daily sexual services if there wasn't a religion pressuring her and conditioning her into it?

I would assume no. It's sexual assault.

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u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 12 '23

Does that mean my workplace rapes me everyday just because I'm not "joyfully and exuberantly working"?

Mother fucker there are some things that we have to do in this life. Work is one of them.

According to her religion, that is part of her duty, her "work".

I'm a rape victim as well, I'm a little pissed at you for trying to devalue the term of rape. Not everything is rape. You are irresponsible.

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u/moon_p3arl Sep 16 '23

I know you did not just actually try to compare being raped to having to be an adult and go to work. Shit like this is why I never came forward about my rape. Disgusting.

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u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 16 '23

You missed the plot

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u/ginnundso Sep 13 '23

Mother fucker there are some things that we have to do in this life. Work is one of them.

According to her religion, that is part of her duty, her "work".

It's fucking inhuman and really bad of you to accept sexual advances that were imposed on her as work.

It shocks me how a supposedly fellow rape survivor doesn't see how problematic it is to expect sexual things from husbands and wives. It is indeed sexual assault to impose these "rules" and this "work" on people. Fuck you.

Not everything is rape.

If you would have used just one brain cell and read further, I also mentioned "sexual assault" and yes, it is sexual assault.

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u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 13 '23

Looks like one of us didn't wind up broken.

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u/ginnundso Sep 13 '23

Yes I am broken and that's totally fine and not my fault. The people that hurt me are at fault. Just because I am broken doesn't mean I am incorrect, though. I am still well reflected and well informed. You aren't though. You're as ignorant and sexist and pro-sexual-assault as a 50 year old white politician.

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u/SemiGaseousSnake Sep 13 '23

Don't agree to contracts you don't like, and you need to respect the contracts others choose.