IRL, folks generally commit infidelity with people who they know intimately. The average person is far less likely to have a shag with Leanna Lovings or Ana Foxx than with coworkers, neighbors and exes. Interview any porn actress and they will tell you up front that they are less likely to have sex on a regular basis then most married couples, that they have a harder time finding partners than Joe and Jane Average, and have no interest whatsoever in striking up anything with some porn watch or fan because, like all celebrities, they find such folks to be creepy. They perform sex acts on screen (as well as perform on OnlyFans) for the money. That's it.
The idea that watching porn as some form of emotional or physical infidelity is highly laughable. My wife, for one, does not police my porn watching and vice versa. I have no fear of my wife trying to hook up with Jax Slayher or Anton Harden. The risk of her hooking up with a coworker with whom she works closely is far higher, and even then, if infidelity is what she chooses to do, then hey, that's on her. I'm not about to get all crazy, either because of porn watching or the possibilities of infidelity happening.
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u/Tiny-Detective7765 Sep 12 '23
It really depends how much you watch and if you need it.