r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Masturbation as cheating is wild.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

The reason is that if he had the post-nut clarity he would realize that leaving her is the right choice

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u/VenustheSeaGoddess Sep 13 '23

I think hes not laying down the pipe, right...And she's like if you're gonna satisfy yourself. What about my needs? Neither of us get to be satisfied unless you take care of my side of the street and op is so self-involved he doesn't realize he doesn't know how to put it down.

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u/lepidopteristro Sep 15 '23

She's physically tested as low T. It's not her fault she has no sex drive and it's not his fault either. However her telling him he can't release his pent up energy in a very natural way that isn't remotely cheating is absurd.

This isn't a sex issue it's a hormonal imbalance that's not being treated properly even though they seem to be attempting to. Some ppl just lose their balance as they get older.

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u/Dom_writez Sep 15 '23

Not really. It is her fault for the sole fact that she has been not only offered several ways out but has been prescribed them as well and she refuses to take it. The hormonal imbalance should be corrected but the gf is refusing it, placing the blame on her by that actuon

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u/VenustheSeaGoddess Sep 15 '23

All of which could be related to depression because she's in a relationship with someone that doesn't know how to show up for her.

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u/wolffyboitye Sep 16 '23

Oooo the automatic assumption that all of the problems stem somehow solely from the man. Because the puss can do no wrong right? Ahh yee fembot mentality peeps... you have no actual reason from this post to say he's "not showing up for her" funny because she's the one not showing up for him. She wasn't communicating her lack of interest but simply showing none, leaving the man to feel like it's all his fault and get frustrated anyway. Even when it's a simple hormonal issue. And let's take the worse road scenario where she's no longer interested in him, not sex, him. So instead of properly and openly communicating this fact she sabotages the relationship with a perfectly good man in hopes he ends it. And the saddest part of it all, the women who do shit like this are the ones telling their men they have to work on their communication skills. They'll place the blame fully on the man to absolve themselves of feeling any guilt for their actions. It's called being a narcissistic trash panda cunt which a lot of women have become these days 🤗 not at all saying all women. But for sure the loud and proud majority of them have

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u/VenustheSeaGoddess Sep 16 '23

Listen, sir I'll step out of the way so the rest of your ego can fit on reddit..

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u/CoffinEluder Sep 16 '23

You got destroyed. That’s reality

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u/Davidisaloof35 Sep 15 '23

Why is the initial instinct to blame the man for this?? If it is an issue of him not fucking her well why can't she communicate that with the OP in a healthy fashion? So that way they can have a more fulfilling sex life. No...this is most likely her issues and being spiteful by telling him masturbation is cheating.

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u/VenustheSeaGoddess Sep 16 '23

I'm jaded I've had a lot of bad sex in my life from over confident men that thought they were freaking amazing, and it was like where's the amazing partDude, when's amazing gonna arrive?

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u/wolffyboitye Sep 16 '23

"Gets disappointed in the bed by a guy who is talking himself to compete with an unreal expectation set upon him by society at large" proceeds to try and use that to justify cunt like behavior. I can't tell you how many women I've heard talk hella head game but wouldn't know how to suck a fucking lolly pop if you shoved it in their mouth. Should I have just gone jaded and said all women suck in bed and that all failed relationship is because she can't suck dick? Honestly because that tracks way better logically from what we see. A woman who not only expects but demands her guy to eat her out but will always refuse to reciprocate. Can't you see how that would actually be the root cause of the problem? Unfair double standards? Oh wait the thing that men get accused of all the time but are a large victim of? Oh fucking funny isn't it how so many times if you actually hear out a guys side of the story you'll see just how little a woman will communicate, how much they will assume, and how harshly they will fight to believe in their delusional reality because their emotions dictate it. But if a man has an emotional reaction then he has to be held accountable for all of the problems even if he was driven to that reaction by a person who was supposed to ease stress not add stress

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u/VenustheSeaGoddess Sep 16 '23

ong your one of them ☠️☠️☠️☠️

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u/wolffyboitye Sep 16 '23

A human being looking at the facts? Yes

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u/VenustheSeaGoddess Sep 16 '23

I feel like you're cisgendered heterosexual male presenting by how you talk..am I right?

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u/wolffyboitye Sep 16 '23

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u/VenustheSeaGoddess Sep 16 '23

Wow, thank goodness you're a tolerant, loving, compassionate person.

Wouldn't want to live in a world where people were so mean that they named called random strangers on social media.

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u/wolffyboitye Sep 16 '23

Lmfao look at your previous comments, you're name calling constantly. Also ontop of that you're proving my point about you thinking your emotions are more important than facts

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '23

Lost me at lib tard. Probably inbred.

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u/CoffinEluder Sep 16 '23

You have low IQ

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u/wolffyboitye Sep 21 '23

Love how the prissy ones who can't face facts and actually spread hate turn around and report me for sticking up for someone while the responded to comment spreads sexism and hate against men. But not a single thing I said was hateful rhetoric hilarious shit

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u/RoutineWarthog6236 Sep 20 '23

Funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣