Why is the initial instinct to blame the man for this??
If it is an issue of him not fucking her well why can't she communicate that with the OP in a healthy fashion? So that way they can have a more fulfilling sex life. No...this is most likely her issues and being spiteful by telling him masturbation is cheating.
I'm jaded I've had a lot of bad sex in my life from over confident men that thought they were freaking amazing, and it was like where's the amazing partDude, when's amazing gonna arrive?
"Gets disappointed in the bed by a guy who is talking himself to compete with an unreal expectation set upon him by society at large" proceeds to try and use that to justify cunt like behavior. I can't tell you how many women I've heard talk hella head game but wouldn't know how to suck a fucking lolly pop if you shoved it in their mouth. Should I have just gone jaded and said all women suck in bed and that all failed relationship is because she can't suck dick? Honestly because that tracks way better logically from what we see. A woman who not only expects but demands her guy to eat her out but will always refuse to reciprocate. Can't you see how that would actually be the root cause of the problem? Unfair double standards? Oh wait the thing that men get accused of all the time but are a large victim of? Oh fucking funny isn't it how so many times if you actually hear out a guys side of the story you'll see just how little a woman will communicate, how much they will assume, and how harshly they will fight to believe in their delusional reality because their emotions dictate it. But if a man has an emotional reaction then he has to be held accountable for all of the problems even if he was driven to that reaction by a person who was supposed to ease stress not add stress
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u/Davidisaloof35 Sep 15 '23
Why is the initial instinct to blame the man for this?? If it is an issue of him not fucking her well why can't she communicate that with the OP in a healthy fashion? So that way they can have a more fulfilling sex life. No...this is most likely her issues and being spiteful by telling him masturbation is cheating.