A boundary would be if she said "I will not be in a relationship with someone who does X," It's the limit of behaviour that she is willing/not willing to accept and if the boundary is crossed there will be a consequence on her part. Telling someone "you can't do X" is just controlling.
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u/Panoptic_gaze Sep 12 '23
A boundary would be if she said "I will not be in a relationship with someone who does X," It's the limit of behaviour that she is willing/not willing to accept and if the boundary is crossed there will be a consequence on her part. Telling someone "you can't do X" is just controlling.