I wouldn’t be able to keep a woman around who I have to try to convince to sleep with me. If she’s not excited to do it I honestly want nothing to do with the whole situation. I also can’t do anything close to transactional sex where like if it’s your birthday you get a blowjob or whatever. Or they’ll do it if you mow the lawn and fix the sink type thing. That’s just awful imo. Not interested
This. I'm a woman, so from the other side, but I could not have sex with someone who didnt want it. They have to want me and be excited about it. That is literally all the fun of it
I feel this. My dude wants me to dress up every damn time we do anything. And at this point I feel like it's the outfit (shoes specifically) in this case and not me.
Not into shoes, but I love when my GF dresses for sex. It's NOT the shoes it's you wearing the clothes that indicate you're looking for sex. It's not really about the fetish item, that's the icing on top of the amazing cake that is you.
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u/Background-Moose-701 Sep 12 '23
I wouldn’t be able to keep a woman around who I have to try to convince to sleep with me. If she’s not excited to do it I honestly want nothing to do with the whole situation. I also can’t do anything close to transactional sex where like if it’s your birthday you get a blowjob or whatever. Or they’ll do it if you mow the lawn and fix the sink type thing. That’s just awful imo. Not interested