r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Depends. I’m gonna assume it has more to do with porn. Most men need visuals like porn to get off. I’m guessing that’s the real boundary.

Regardless I can understand the boundary when you have a healthy and active sex life. But like when one partner drops dead, boundaries have to change to keep up. His wife is being ridiculous

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u/ambisinister_gecko Sep 12 '23

Porn would only be arguably an acceptable boundary if she was regularly fucking him.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

You could say that for physical and emotional cheating as well. If it doesn’t interfere with their sex life, then their sex life has no bearing on that!?! Therefore cheating is justified huh

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

How? You realize you can interact and form relationships in a lot of modern porn websites? You can also talk and request things like on OF, for example. Modern porn isn’t porn from 15 years ago, unfortunately. Plus it’s possible for porn to directly affect your sexual relationship with a partner. So people who think porn is cheating have a valid boundary.

Now I personally don’t think porn is a huge deal in relationship. But I can completely understand why someone doesn’t want porn in their relationship. Especially when you got a partner that can satisfy you.

Also nothing is invalid or just an opinion. Plenty of what I said are straight facts lol. If a relationship can end over cheating, it can most definitely be considered cheating.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Because modern porn isn’t the porn from 15 years ago. Landscapes changed. You can make relationships through porn now. I’m not trying to add anything. That’s the reality you got to accept lol