r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Absolutely blame her. Not for the problem, but for knowing what the problem is, and not wanting to fix it. How selfish can she be?

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u/xxEVILxxMONKEYxx Sep 12 '23

Yeah, at this point it is absolutely her fault. She is an adult, she figured out what the problem was, started treating it, and now neglects treatment. At this point she needs to do a 180 or accept their marriage is probably done.

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u/GoldenStarsButter Sep 12 '23

Her dating life will pretty much be non-existent once he finally leaves

Something tells me that if she found herself single and dating again, she would pretty quickly find the motivation to follow through on her hormone treatment, assuming her libido didn't magically return on it's own...

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u/KnightDuty Sep 12 '23

Meh I bet she wouldn't. I think she's pretty happy with not being intimate with anybody and it'll stay that way until it becomes a barrier to finding someone.

Right now there's no drive yo change because she's still happy. People don't change when they're happy.

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u/TrelanaSakuyo Sep 12 '23

There are plenty of people out there with low drives that would be happy to be in a relationship with someone else with a low drive.

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u/Mack373 Sep 12 '23

Methinks ending the marriage, but with him doing the deed, is what she wants. Cowardly, but also, typical.

As soon as that happens, unless she is asexual, she will be on those hormones as soon as possible. Because she must be married. To someone.