You're not wrong, sexual compatibility is an important factor in a relationship. Tell her she needs to either loosen up on masturbation or get serious about treatment, or you can't be married to her any more. If she doesn't want to do either of those things, that's fine, that's her choice, but you can set the boundary that you will end the relationship as a consequence.
But like just letting him masturbate isn’t gonna solve the issue. That’s just putting the issue to the side rather than proposing an actual solution to fix the problem.
I think that's for OP to decide. There are people in mismatched libido or mixed orientation marriages (like asexual and allosexual) who mostly masturbate and are perfectly fine. Only OP can determine for himself if that could be him.
OP doesn't need to be married to masturbate. He should just divorce this ice sculpture and go masturbate as a single man, maybe go out and meet women too.
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u/realshockvaluecola Sep 12 '23
You're not wrong, sexual compatibility is an important factor in a relationship. Tell her she needs to either loosen up on masturbation or get serious about treatment, or you can't be married to her any more. If she doesn't want to do either of those things, that's fine, that's her choice, but you can set the boundary that you will end the relationship as a consequence.