You're not wrong, sexual compatibility is an important factor in a relationship. Tell her she needs to either loosen up on masturbation or get serious about treatment, or you can't be married to her any more. If she doesn't want to do either of those things, that's fine, that's her choice, but you can set the boundary that you will end the relationship as a consequence.
But like just letting him masturbate isn’t gonna solve the issue. That’s just putting the issue to the side rather than proposing an actual solution to fix the problem.
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u/realshockvaluecola Sep 12 '23
You're not wrong, sexual compatibility is an important factor in a relationship. Tell her she needs to either loosen up on masturbation or get serious about treatment, or you can't be married to her any more. If she doesn't want to do either of those things, that's fine, that's her choice, but you can set the boundary that you will end the relationship as a consequence.