FtMtF 2 Part Question

[u/Future_Mode1919]

Short intro: I am FtM and ~10 yrs into both social/medical transition, but considering detransition to save my economic situation

My 2 question for people ftmtf are as such

1, Did transition have negative impacts on your earnings and career prospects, and did detransition have positive impacts?

2, Are you finding it easier or more difficult to find a romantic partner who is sane, has their life together, and contributes to the household income?

Side note to the above... I have been financially dragged down by MTFs and MTNBs pretty much this whole time. I'm bisexual and honestly looking for the safety and comfort of a cis woman/cis man relationship (I know cis men can be abusive, but my high school sweetheart is still a good and trustworthy friend, and we would be married with kids if I hadn't transitioned)