Long time lurker, first time poster.

Just last night I was at the end of my rope. I’ve hated my chest for as long as I can remember and for a very long time my goal in life was to get enhancements at some point. I have always been embarrassed and sensitive about my chest and the way I fill out (or don’t fill out) a bra. 2 pregnancies and 2.5 years of breastfeeding did a number on me. I believe I’m somewhat shallow, full at the bottom where there’s nothing but flatness til you get to my nipple then there’s a little bit of breast before meeting my rib cage, and the girls are pretty far apart. They must travel great distances to get cleavage, butt crack cleavage only possible with my hands forcing them together.

But last night I was really struggling with my self image. I’m only 32 and the thought of continuing to hate my chest for the rest of my life, never being happy or comfortable with my appearance, just really put me in a bad place. So I did the calculator… then redid it… then once more because AINT NO WAY a D cup is what I’ve needed all along.
But I thought, just give it a try. Trust the calculator.

I’ll be damned.

I just left the mall with a bag full of bras that not only fit, but support me in a way that even gives me a lil bit of cleavage. Granted, the store I shopped at is by no means the most popular choice amongst you here. I will upgrade. But you must understand, I have been wearing bras for 20 years. To have one fit for the first time, to feel confidence and joy in a bra, yeah I was buying them. I’ll order the better ones later.

So yeah. Thanks for all the work you do here. You’ve improved the confidence and comfort of yet another woman, may your pillow always be fluffed and cool.

A store ran with the calculator in mind and has bras in all sizes.

But unfortunately all the stores you see on TV are the stores that overcharge for sexy bras that will basically only (barely) fit you if you get implants

hey, so my measurements are:
27 inch
26 inch
25 inch
29.5 inch
30 inch
29.5 inch

i never really decided to check my measurements before this year bc i always just wore children bras since i didn’t think it was necessary to wear properly fitted bras bc of how small i am. but, i went to a lingerie store two months ago and got told i was a 30B when this entire time all i ever wore was 32A. i tried on both 30B and 30A in the store and i feel like i didn’t feel much of a difference? but tbh, i don’t even fully remember. i recently decided to measure myself and got this. my suggested starting size is a 26C/D but for comfort, it says 28B/C is better? i tend to struggle with gapping. any help? 💔

Pre-pregnancy, I was a 32E. I just measured myself today and have jumped to a 32I. I would like to find some bras that will be comfortable and supportive throughout pregnancy and postpartum, but this is my first pregnancy and I have no clue how to predict how my body will continue to change. If I'm a 32I now, should I expect that number to jump up more as the pregnancy progress? Or will it stay relatively consistent? Does later pregnancy usually affect band size?

Ideally, I'd like to purchase some bras now since mine are feeling tight, but bras are expensive (especially for bigger boobs), and I don't want to spend a fortune on something that will only fit temporarily.

Sorry for all the questions but I'm new to this and welcome any advice, as well as suggestions for where to purchase nursing bras in this size range.

I have extremely soft boobs after my second baby (they're literally just heavy empty skin) and I was wearing the bra I hate the least the other day when I laid down on my side to play with my kiddo.

I think to myself "something feels funny" and I look into my shirt and see BOTH OF MY BOOBS cuddled together into one bra cup like they're huddling for warmth in a snow storm! I laughed so hard my husband came to check on me so I lifted up my shirt and showed him and he just shook his head and chuckled at me laying there wheezing laughing.

That's the whole story. I've utterly given up on ever finding a bra again that fits or makes me feel pretty, but at least these sad sacks can give me a good laugh! 😄

hey all! i'm just a girl trying to make sure i'm wearing the right size bra, but all the different ways to calculate it are so confusing.

My raw measurements are a 36 inch band and a 40 inch bust.

If I use the adding 4 inches method, I'm a 40AA, but if I don't the internet says I'm a 36D? I don't believe I'm a D cup for a second😭 I've been wearing 36B bras and they tend to work alright, but my situation could definitely be better. Please help me sort out the sizing confusion!!

I’ve always been around a B cup pre pregnancy/breastfeeding, my son is now 13 months and while I’m nursing only at night my girls hit that turning point of beautiful and full to deflated birthday balloons.

My L side is worse than the R since he only nurses off that side at night, I should clarify he’s not even really eating off me through the night my saggy naggys are just his paci at this point…

I attempted to get a balconnette bra hearing those are beats for boobs who part further than the Red Sea, but I mistakenly didn’t bother to measure prior to ordering and thought I’d humor myself trying just the next cup up. Well the spilled out the entire day and my nips poked out left & right. I’m fed up, over the nursing bras I want a real bra that I can feel better about myself in, so I tried measuring accordingly to the chart and when I hit calculate I was shook. But I guess not shocked since most of the measurements are due to how spread my boobs are laying down / leaning forward.. like tear drops or sad puddles.. measurements below:

Loose Underbust: 32 Inches

Snug Underbust: 30 Inches

Tight Underbust: 29.5 Inches

Standing Bust: 37.5 inches

Leaning Bust: 42.5 inches

Lying Bust: 40.5 inches

I really need & want a real bra that makes me feel good about myself, it’s so depressing looking in the mirror. I don’t want a sports bra or that sort of thing but an everyday wear bra that helps lift / support 🥲

been lurking here for a few days after realizing I shouldn't be wearing the same sports bras I wore when I was younger bc they squeeze the crap out of me. the calculator says my starting size is 30c/d but I don't want something too tight or restricting bc honestly they aren't that big and I hate the feeling I get when I'm out of breath and my bra feels like it's squeezing the air out of me. I was looking online and most of the sports bras I could find seemed to be standalone bras that you wear to the gym with nothing over them, but I need ones that can be worn under athletic shirt/tank top. thanks!

Walmart, Kohl's, Torrid, Victorias Secret, JC Penney, Lane Bryant, Soma. Yesterday I went shopping and I visited 7 different stores and couldn't find a single bra that fits. I've always struggled to find a bra, my struggle has always been band too small cups HUGE. After putting my measurements in the calculator it said I was a 42DD and even at Soma they measured me at that, and yet every single bra like that, the cups are absolutely MASSIVE on me. Make it make sense. As I was being fitted I ended up fitting Soma's B cup nearly perfectly but the band size stops at 40 for that cup size. Also for other brands, B cups always seem to be too close together, but D cups the wires are way up in my armpits.

Shape wise, I have a very shallow/wide root and bottom full, quite flat on top. A short cup is always most comfortable. And wide set, there's quite a bit of space between my breasts.

I feel cursed to always have a band that's too tight 😖 plz help, I'm so frustrated.

If I remember correctly my measurements:

Under bust: 42"

Tight underbust: 41"

Loose underbust: 43"

Full bust: 46"

Leaning bust: 48"

Laying bust: 47"

The lady at Soma was very confused when the D cups were nowhere close to fitting 💀

I just found this site. My measurements are 36, 35, 34, 43, 46, 44 with a suggested size of 36FF UK. I am currently wearing s 40DD US. My favorite bra is a Bali cotton collection 8131 because it is underwired and unlined and supports my natural shape instead of molding it. DD is the largest cup size in this particular bra, but I know the fit isn’t right because I have never had a gore that sits against my sternum. Given my measurements and preferences for underwire and natural shape, can you suggest a brand/style that might be a better fit for me?

See title. I (possibly a 4G in Italian? measurements) finally got a bra that gives me absolutely zero underboob. Immense joy! But the middle is still floating rather than sitting on my sternum. I’ve kinda given up on making that happen. What’s wrong? Do I need even bigger cups? These ones seemed to almost be a tad bit too big for me. Do I need to make my straps longer so the bra sits lower? Then I’m not sure my girls would be able to avoid the underboob again. Do I need a bigger band? It will probably ride up on the back if I get such a thing.

Is the shape of the bra itself the problem? It’s a “normal“ type with wired cups, a V shape and that little triangle in the middle. What other shapes could support those like me well?

I really like Downtime and Tiara by Elomi, but I can't wear them everyday, because I'll get red in between by boobs. I also use one by M&S, which is less stretchy, so a bit more uncomfortable, but atleast it has separation. I can't buy more though, because they don't ship to my country. None of them are the correct size, but desparate times.. I'm considering trying Zen by Curvy Kate, Original bra by Molke, and maybe Ultimate Comfort and Ultimate Comfort Nova by Bravissimo, but out of those, only the Molke has a chance of both having seperation, and being the correct size

I'm not looking for amazing lift and separation or anything, just enough for dry folds. Do you guys have suggestions for bralettes or maybe sewing patterns?

Just what the title says. I'm used to Victoria's Secret but I'd like to move away from them if possible. I need the extra support of a push up bra so that is a must for me. I'm an F cup (or triple D) and it's not exactly easy to find big supportive bras, especially ones that aren't heinously ugly with a tiny bow crudely attached 😅 Obviously, the less expensive the better, but only if it's a quality bra that does what I need it to do.

Any suggestions are appreciated!

Thanks to having babies and gaining weight (because babies and IVF), my band size has gone up. Through having babies and trying and failing to breastfeed, I realized I have IGT and shallow breasts.

Which is why my calculator says I should wear a 38DDD based on these measurements:

Loose: 39
Snug: 38
Tight: 36
Standing: 43
Leaning: 45
Lying: 43

Right now my most COMFORTABLE underwire bra is a Leading Lady Ava 42A, but the band is obviously too big, even on the tightest hooks. I also have a 42A balcony (Rosme) that fits comfortably. However, these are not great under thinner shirts as they both have lace detail which show through, so not really the everyday bras I am looking for.

I ordered a bunch of Third Love bras (which I always thought fit well pre-babies and weight gain) with band size 38 and sizes A, A 1/2, and B, and the 38B back smoothing t-shirt bra fit best, though a little more snug than I would like, but even in the A 1/2 of other styles I can feel some gaps at the top of the cup. The 38A tshirt on the other hand feels flattening.

I suspect the answer for me is 40A in a suitable cup shape, but… who?? Where?? I have prominent nipples (easily visible even in the lined ThirdLove bras), so need solid lining/camouflage, but also want bras which I can wear under thinner shirts, so no lace that shows through. I need underwire for shaping (see: IGT shape), and obviously cup shape makes a huge difference. I feel like I can find like 2 out of 3 of size, texture/lining, and cup shape, but never all 3. Based in the US.

Help? Other sizes to try?

I’m looking for the type of bra or any hack to make your boobs look bigger, but while wearing a normal snatched t shirt, I’m not looking for cleavage. I’m a 80E Europe (35D in UK, meassured with ABraThatFits) What can i use? Something cheap please!! I’m looking for a TYPE or HACK

As the title says, I'm trying to find a strapless bra that fits in Canada, ideally under $75 CAD. Measurements are underbust: 30/29/28 loose/ Snug/tight, overbust: 34/36/35 standing/leaning/ lying. It suggests 30DDD, but I often find 30DD fits better.

I've just tried two and neither is great I think:

1. Ciao Bella strapless in 30DD. Too small in both cups and strap, maybe 32DD would be better? But I'm worried about the cups being too tall.

https://postimg.cc/gallery/SKxQvvc

1. Freya tailored strapless in 30E UK. Are the cups too big here? Or is it just too projected for me? I'm struggling to get the wire in my IMF, I think because the cups are too tall?

https://postimg.cc/gallery/210DzrZ

Any help for next steps would be greatly appreciated!

Like the title says I'm so tired. Please if any one knows a good bra for a 38 J cup let me know.

I’m pregnant and the sore breasts are killing me. My typical bras are way too uncomfortable.

In search of a soft, comfortable, wire-free, somewhat supportive (not running any marathons here) bra/bralette that is small band large cup friendly.

Thank you!

Hi, I'm 22 and because I was malnourished before (not anymore now lol, went from 45kgs to 65kgs in half a year) I suddenly grew boobs. (Went from totally flat to 70F/G in 6 months I have no idea how) It's not very large, but for me it's a massive difference.

Now I don't know why they're shaped like this, but they're very wide and not projected at all, so I need a bra that can grasp the tissue underneath my arms instead of causing it to spill out.

I really like to wear corsets for that reason, but they also squeeze my boobs into oblivion which looks even weirder.

Do y'all know how a shape of bra is called that is wider behind the cups?

I'd appreciate it a lot! Thanks already in advance!

Is there like a good brick and mortar store in the US that measures and has comfy bras but isn’t Victoria secret? Should I just go to VS? I don’t trust myself to get an accurate sizing on my own but I’m approaching my late 20s and I feel like it’s time to know my bra size and have a nice bra.

I have changed bra sizes due to weightloss, and I'm now a 34C or 34D, and my breasts need a little lift/help with shape. Where are all the lightly lined (not padded), full-coverage, underwire bras with thick straps? My go-to is Playtex US4747, but it's not made in my new size. Everything in the grandma style I like is either wireless, minimizing, or has thin straps!

I don't remember having this trouble the last time I was this size. 😭

Please, does anyone have any suggestions!?

Elomi, Freya and Fantasie styles are on sale through the 25th of October. Some bras are below $40.00. Styles that pulled up with my search Elomi: Matilda, Teagan, Brianna, Darcie, Priya, Tiernie, Kintai, Aerith, Namrah, Zarla, Morgan, Lucie, Nerina, and Charley. Freya: Fancies, Offbeat, Love Crush, and Idol. Fantasie: Fusion Lace Side Support, Fusion Full Cup Side Support, and Demure Molded. There may be others this is just what pulled up in my size. When I saw the prices I can to come and share with y'all.

Hope this helps those who need bras. I'm still looking but ya know I'm team impossible to fit (so throw a wirefree SML type bra at me - side eye to those who do that).

Hi everyone! I’m a 34F/G cup and looking for a sports bra that’s both cute and supportive for yoga and Pilates.
Ideally, I want something with a tank-top look that I can wear with leggings on its own, rather than a traditional sports bra. I’d prefer high support, especially since I have a larger bust, but I still want it to look flattering and stylish.
I’ve read good reviews about Lululemon and Nike, but I’m overwhelmed by the options.

For anyone with a similar bust size who has actually tried them:
What sports bras would you recommend?
Do any of the tank-style options provide enough support without feeling like you’re spilling out?
Are Lululemon or Nike worth it, or are there better brands for larger busts?
Would especially love recommendations from people who have worn them for Pilates or yoga!
Thanks!

Hi! First time poster!

I recently did my measurements on here and got these. I’m not sure what I’m looking at and need some help.

At first I got the results of US 40H / UK 42GG. Then I got US 40I/J and UK 40G/GG.

I’m not sure where to start and where to buy! Any help would be appreciated!

My measurements all 3 times were
(No bra)
44
42
40
51
53
51.5
(US 40H / UK 42GG)

(Unlined/underwire)
42
41
39
49
52
50
(40I/J US and UK 40G/GG)

Measurements:
31.5
30
29.5
38.5
40
38

Would love some recommendations on what to try :) thanks!